
10/07/2025
“The means we use must be as pure as the ends we seek.” ~ Martin Luther King Jr. ❤️
I’ll never forget this horse. Margaret. She came to Second Chance Ranch in 2023 for extreme aggressive behavior that was putting the safety of her handlers at risk.
She’d been severely mistreated, being confined to a 12x12 stall that was never cleaned. Living in her own filth, with humans who resorted to physical abuse before giving up on her entirely. Thankfully, some former connections of mine found her in this condition (at a preeminent breeder of Arabian horses, no less), brought her home, and eventually sent her to us for a second chance.
Margaret had taken on so much insecurity and fear from years of maltreatment that expressed itself as aggression. I try to remind myself daily that anger is fear turned sideways. This was absolutely the case with Margaret — can you blame her? Margaret made a 180 in the several months that we had her, and turned into an absolutely stellar partner on trail. Thanks to: diligent training, compassionate care, and quiet leadership.
“The means we use must be as pure as the ends we seek.” This MLK quote sums up everything for me in relation to horses. If you want an equine partner that will ride through fire for you, you damn well better be willing to do the same for them. If you don’t have the answers, ask for help from someone who does. Put the horse’s needs before your own. Rule out any potential physical problems that could be negatively impacting your horse’s emotional state.
Horses have stood by our species for thousands of years. I am sick and tired of the “beasts of burden” narrative — though the days of pulling carriages and plowing fields may be largely behind them, these magnificent animals are still viewed as beasts of burden in relation to human pleasure. And when the horse can’t perform because their needs aren’t being met, we are so ready to discard them and move onto the next “thing.”
Horses have served us for so long. I think we need to shift the narrative and ask, “how can I serve you?”
And in this service to the purest creature there is, we are healed. These animals are still here to make us better.