06/03/2026
I met Daisy yesterday. New 7 mo rescue but a bit under confident and worried. They discussed how she’ll cower and submissive p*e and gets barky with new people and pulls and painics on walks.
So we took it slow.
We went her pace.
Let her do the talking ( with her body signals and movement).
She’s the sweetest thing and really warmed up to me because we didn’t force any interactions.
A fearful dog’s confidence isn’t built by forcing interaction, it’s built through choice.
When a dog barks or backs away, they’re communicating that they need more distance. Walking toward them, reaching out, or insisting “it’s okay” can actually increase their stress because their request for space isn’t being respected. ( especially if they’re in a pen or crate and have nowhere else to move to)
Instead, give them distance. Give them choice. Let them observe, process, and engage when they’re ready, like I did with Daisy. 🌼
Confidence grows when dogs feel safe, not pressured.
