11/21/2025
The TLDR of this post; this year has been chaotic, and I appreciate everybody for being patient! If you want to hear about the behind-the-scenes goings-on, feel free to keep reading!
I know I haven't been the best at responding to people inquiring about rats for the past couple of months. I always do eventually get back to people, it may just take me a little while. As much as I wish my pet projects could be my sole focus, we rely on my husband's main business as our sole income and, as a small business that has had a customer base grow incredibly fast in a very short amount of time, it has left us both working around the clock with absolutely zero down time. When I get home from a 12hr work day, the first thing I do is get straight to cleaning, feeding, watering, and giving attention to my own mischief while they free roam, and anything else has to inevitably be put off another day. I'll have my schedule completely planned out for the next day, but something almost always comes up with work, so I do appreciate everyone for being patient with me and understanding that I'll get to them when I can!
This year has been rough. On top of our workload quadrupling, I sadly lost the majority of my elderly mischief members - Gene, Lilo, Mite, Penny, and Nugget. It was incredibly difficult losing every one of them, but I am so glad that I had so long with them, and I got an entire year longer than I expected to have with Penny, thanks to the removal of her tumor. Lilo left me one of the greatest gifts too - Pork Pie - who is now my oldest resident. Sadly, he has ended up being the only rat I've ever personally worked with to develop Hind Leg Degeneration, and I've subsequently had to commit extra time and attention to him and make the room HLD friendly for him. He is such a little trooper, and Plum Bum has been taking good care of him while I'm at work, now that she's lost all of her sisters and has become his sole companion. Carl, Gavin, Wesley, and Jake are all doing great, and every day I look forward to coming home and getting smothered in kisses from Carl and Jake. They are the loves of my life ๐ฅฐ.
I had talked about my breeding plans for this year being focused down to my Bouncy Baby (Blue/Black Rexoid) line, Kissy Boy (Black/Mink) line, a Marked Tonkinese project and a brand new Silvermane project. I had hoped to have already adopted out some Silvermane boys by now. Unfortunately, the lone Silvermane that Mischa gave me from her only litter ended up not being interested in the ladies whatsoever. I tried pairing him up for months, but it just wasn't happening, and I guess his attitude rubbed off on his Tonkinese buddy, as he ran away from the ladies anytime he was introduced to them ๐คฆโโ๏ธ. Thankfully, my wonderful adopter Alex just happened to be looking to add to her mischief and give Rin and Yoji two new brothers from me. It was hard for me to say goodbye to my first and only SM boy, especially as he's such a snuggle bug, but I couldn't think of anyone better to take him and his buddy. Sadly, this did mean that my pet line projects were now way behind and left me turning adopters away. I do thankfully still have some of my reserve lines that Carl and many of the other boys I've adopted out before came from, as well as the last of my original Bouncy Baby line offspring, but my SM project is still months away from being established while I wait for my SM girls to grow a little more before they're introduced to a boy from my Kissy Boy line.
This week I also had to say goodbye to my remaining Bouncy Baby girl - Daphne. She retired a year ago but was still a permanent resident, and I'm going to miss seeing her sweet face and getting my daily kisses. She lived a long life for such a petite little lady, and she gave me the biggest boy I've ever seen in my life (and who I still have)! Her grandbabies are part of my newer lines, so the Bouncy Baby line will live on!
One other disheartening thing that happened this year was a bad experience I had with an adopter. I won't go into too much detail, but this person was somebody that I had been talking to for a long time and I felt they could be trusted with some boys from me without me sending them my adoption agreement. They were 4.5 months old and very established. Within 4 weeks of having my boys, one had passed away completely out of the blue (no physical injuries or signs of anything abnormal when I was shown his body), and she had decided the other was aggressive. She now wanted some younger, fancier boys from me and said that the remaining boy was going to live alone from now on. This was an upsetting revelation, especially since he was not acting remotely aggressive in the proof I received from her, and I explained that he shouldn't be living alone as he was incredibly social and thrived with his group. She then decided to permanently rehome him with a breeder (that I had already personally blacklisted and wasn't aware she was good friends with). This boy was so non-aggressive to the extent that this breeder had no problem IMMEDIATELY introducing him to a group of unrelated pups (always a huge no-no). I also discovered other concerning information through other breeders she was trying to adopt from in which she was not being truthful/was contradicting things previously said to me, and this only added to my disappointment and frustration over the situation, but made me at least thankful that some of us have such a tight knit community where we CAN still have some trust and look out for each other! I'll no longer make exceptions for who I send my Adoption Agreement document to, and will ensure that anybody adopting from me understands how to provide proper care, understand body language within rats, what is normal and abnormal, and make sure they will properly quarantine them/any other rats they adopt from elsewhere to ensure they don't potentially pass unfamiliar pathogens to each other.
There has been even more that happened this year, including rescuing a puppy (Fenja), but unfortunately having to subsequently deal with some of the most extremely horrible women within the rescue community I had naively agreed to work with instead of my usual contacts - that's a LONG story for another day, but just another thing that consumed a lot of my time. The great news is that I was able to raise the funds for the emergency care she needed (including a blood transfusion), raise her up for a couple of months, and then she was adopted by a couple I know allllll the way in Massachusetts! They're understandably also upset with how these ladies we worked with conducted themselves, especially after inadvertently discovering one of them making provably false claims about them - behind their backs - on social media AFTER paying the $600 adoption and transportation fee (because fabricating drama for online followers gets people to donate more, I guess!) but they are now a complete and incredibly happy family, and I even get to stay in regular contact with Fenja over video call! Dealing with these women was an experience I can't even put into words and I wish I'd gone my usual route with this rescue, but at least Fenja survived and got her family in the end.
To end this on a positive note, the biggest thing that happened this year is that my sister came to visit! We had not seen each other in 10 years! The last time she saw me I was 23, so I had changed a lot, and her getting to experience my life and my world in America was so much fun. Preparing for me to take 4 days off from the shop took weeks of extra work, and I'm still catching up now, but it was the best time I've had since moving to the US, so it was worth it! I now get to look forward to her bringing her entire family over next year, and getting to see my nieces and nephew again now that they're no longer babies and toddlers!
Again, thank you to everybody who has been patient with me, and I promise I WILL always get back to you eventually! If you read all of this, I commend you! I finally had half an hour to spare now that I'm all caught up, and figured I'd take the time to divulge!
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