05/22/2025
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You Can’t Teach What You Can’t Feel...
In the world of horsemanship, there’s a vital truth that separates a good rider from a great teacher: you can’t teach someone how to ride a horse if you can’t feel it for yourself. Horses are not machines—they are individuals, each with their own quirks, sensitivities, and rhythms. And while there are countless methods and theories, the heart of effective teaching lies in the ability to feel what’s happening beneath you and to translate that into guidance for your student.
Every horse responds differently. What works for one might do nothing for another. That’s why rigid instruction often falls flat. It’s not about drilling a technique into the rider but about discovering what works for this horse, in this moment. That discovery begins with feel.
A trainer who has developed this feel—through years of riding, trial, error, and listening—can interpret a horse’s subtle cues: the shift in weight, the tension in a shoulder, the hesitation in a transition. From there, they can guide the rider in using their legs, seat, hand, and voice to create harmony rather than conflict.
The lift of a rein, the softening of the seat, the timing of the leg aid—these are not just mechanical actions but pieces of a conversation with the horse. When a trainer has truly felt this connection, they can better show their students how to achieve it too. It’s not just about what to do, but when and how to do it—adjusting in real time, with sensitivity and awareness.
Ultimately, the most valuable thing a riding instructor can offer isn’t a long list of drills or textbook techniques. It’s empathy for the horse and clarity for the rider, both rooted in personal experience. Because when you can feel it, you can teach it—not just with words, but with wisdom.
