09/05/2024
Working with the horse from the inside out isn’t something that is easily seen, sometimes for an extended period of time. The reality is in the long term, all that work will be present and valued but not always acknowledged on how it actually got there in the first place.
I remember asking Tom about the progression of horses in their early training and he pointed me to a section in his book True Unity and I realized that what he looked on as a foundation went beyond all things that I had learned and practiced in my riding career before meeting Tom.
He asked me to read out loud one particular line, which I did: "I don't mean that I'm trying to get everything completed, but to get enough there to where if the horse gets troubled he will come to me; or to where I can get him to come to me for security and cover."
This really does get to the in-depth feel that Tom had.
His reflections on the spirit of the horse.
Trust is the foundation of all good training.
Without it, and specifically if it has been lost or violated in the past, some form of resistance may occur. This can be outright pushiness, aggression, flight, freeze or perhaps some other avoidance behavior. If your horse exhibits any of these, first and foremost, start to establish a trusting relationship. As you do, and you make some progress, above all, do not violate that by thinking you can increase pressures or other aversives that have caused the original problem.
Tom told us that he wants to work from the inside of the horse. This is where the trust will come from. When you establish trust, then you can start to work from the inside out to achieve certain specific behaviors in a willing frame of mind.
Thank you Caitlin for the lovely photo❤️