11/14/2025
Every breeder knows this feeling. Your phone buzzes a few days after a puppy goes home, and the message starts out sweet.
“We love him, but…”
And you can already guess the rest.
He barks. He nips. He cries at night. He’s “a lot.”
The thing is… that isn’t a problem.
That’s a puppy.
They’re babies trying to figure out life without their mum and littermates. They’re confused, overstimulated, excited, scared, and curious all at the same time. That’s completely normal.
But a lot of people today want the easy version. The one they see online. The perfectly calm eight week old who never chews anything and somehow already knows every command.
They forget that behind every well trained, well mannered adult dog is someone who put in the work. Someone who showed up every day with patience, structure, and consistency.
So when someone says, “He’s adorable, but I don’t think we’re a good fit,” what they usually mean is that they wanted the love without the learning curve.
No puppy comes pre programmed. Even the best raised babies need time to adjust. They need guidance, calm energy, and someone willing to put in the effort.
People confuse an easy puppy with a good one.
The truth is every puppy is good. They’re just new.
And anything new is messy before it becomes magical.
As breeders, we see it all. We comfort the ones who come back scared and confused. We remind them gently, “You didn’t do anything wrong.”
Because it’s never their fault when someone wasn’t ready for the tough parts that lead to the best parts.
Puppies aren’t a trend, or a trial run, or something to “see if it works out.”
They’re a commitment. A little piece of your heart on four legs.
If you’re not ready for the messy parts of puppyhood, that’s okay. Just wait until you can give your whole heart.
These little souls deserve nothing less. 💜🐾
Shared from another breeder.
