08/14/2026
Here’s what I changed to get this result in Murphy’s first 3 days.
The first clip is the behavior everyone notices: Murphy sees a moving vehicle, his arousal shoots up, and he lunges. The second clip isn't nearly as exciting to watch, and that's exactly why I love it. A car passes and… basically nothing happens. 😂 He notices it, but he doesn't feel the same need to chase, lunge, or completely lose his mind over it.
But there wasn't one magical training technique between those two clips.
One of the biggest mistakes we can make with behavior like this is focusing exclusively on what happens during the reaction. We see the lunge, so naturally we think the lunge is what needs to be addressed. But by the time Murphy is launching himself toward the vehicle, I'm looking at a behavior that has already been building. I want to know what his arousal looked like beforehand, how much access he's had to practicing this behavior, what his environment looks like throughout the rest of the day, whether he can disengage from movement, and whether he actually has the skills to make another choice.
So that's where we've started.
We've been lowering his overall arousal instead of constantly putting him in situations where he has to hold himself together. He's getting downtime. We're using marker work to build engagement and help him understand exactly which choices pay. We're changing his emotional response to the things that have historically sent him through the roof, and we're being really intentional about how much exposure he's getting and at what distance.
But one of the BIGGEST changes doesn't happen during a formal training session at all.
We've started limiting his opportunities to rehearse this behavior.
Murphy has had opportunities to practice getting worked up over movement in multiple areas of his life, including the fence line, in the vehicle, and during his normal day-to-day activities. Every time a dog rehearses a behavioral pattern, they're getting better at it. They don't care that we didn't schedule a training session. Their brain is still taking notes. 😂 If Murphy spends part of his day practicing calm engagement with me and then spends the rest of it losing his ever-loving mind at every vehicle that passes the fence, those two things are working against each other.
That's why behavior modification can't just be about what happens during the 10 or 15 minutes when we're actively “training.”
I'm looking at the other 23+ hours too.
Where is he practicing the behavior I don't want? Where is his nervous system getting overloaded? How much actual rest is he getting? Can he think around the trigger, or am I putting him so close to it that thinking isn't even an option? Can he disengage on his own? Does he understand what I want instead? And most importantly, are the choices I'm making throughout his day supporting the behavior I'm trying to build?
That second clip is what happens when some of those pieces start coming together.
Now, Murphy has been here for THREE DAYS. I don't believe he's magically “fixed,” and I certainly wouldn't take one calm pass and declare that we've solved vehicle reactivity forever. Behavior doesn't work that way, and three days can't erase years of rehearsal.
But three days can give us information.
And what Murphy is showing me right now is that when we lower his arousal, change the way he's exposed to the trigger, give him clearer communication, build engagement, provide enough downtime, and stop giving him unlimited opportunities to practice the old behavior, his response can change.
That's a pretty important piece of information because now we know we're moving in the right direction.
Also, I'll happily take a dog casually walking past a car as my exciting Friday content. Sometimes the best dog training videos are the ones where absolutely nothing happens. 😂