21/01/2019
We had a lot of questions about our recent post about dominance come up in our personal messages, so let's talk more about it.
If you don't know by now, these are my two dogs Marlin and Mya. We had just finished playing with this toy and Marlin ended up with it. Now that you have the context, let's dissect some things I've said in the past.
In response to a question somewhere along the line of "Which of your dogs is most dominant?" You may have heard me say "none of them are, I am." That statement is true, however not entirely. There most certainly is a pecking order in our house. Now the next question is "who decides the pecking order?" That gets tricky.
Ultimately, I have no say in who is number two, three , four or five. All I am concerned with is who number one is (me) and every other animal is below that. I could care less what they decide among themselves who ranks higher. Ultimately the stronger dog is going to assert themself over the other dogs. You can see a little snippet of that hear.
Mya is absolutely toy obsessed. Despite having only three legs, she will chase with the best of them and often times take the toy right out if their mouth if she does not get their first. So, why isn't she taking it from Marlin? She clearly wants to, you can see in her eyes that she's going crazy. She simply respects Marlin that much. She is aware that he is fully capable of asserting himself over her.
Now there are a couple more questions I know I will get from this. "Jake, if Marlin is being territorial, why don't you correct him and tell him he can't be territorial?" The short answer is to see the fourth paragraph. I simply do not care what these two (three if you include Rocko) figure out among themselves. If I know there is a risk for a fight, that will be handled accordingly. In this context, I know Marlin would at worst tell her off.
Now to answer another question that will give you a bit of an insider secret within the dig training community. At least among those of us who specialize in dog to dog socialization: I want Marlin to be the most dominant dog in every setting possible. Since he is clearly the most balanced and dominant dog that I have, he has slowly earned a lot of trust from me over the last few years when it comes to doing what is necessary to help a dog learn the proper way to socialize. If we have an annoying, immature, young punk in, I know I can simply put him with Marlin and he will most certainly put the dog in his place without causing any harm (video on that coming soon). If we have a timid, insecure dog in who would rather not be around dogs, I am 100% confident that Marlin will ignore the dog and allow it to approach him first, whenever they are ready. Those are things that I simply cannot accomplish as efficiently if I do not have a dog like Marlin. With severe aggression cases, he understands to stay out of my way and let me work the dog up to the point of being able to greet other dogs, and then his instincts will tell him exactly what he needs to do from that moment forward.
This is not something that I would advise ANYONE to do with their personal dogs. It takes a ton of time and relationship building to get any dog to this point. I have had Marlin for three years and he still has some learning to do. Most families that have multiple dogs most definitely should not even be thinking about this stuff. It's simply not necessary and can go very wrong if you do not know what to look for. I am only explaining this to you all so you can have an extra glimpse into what goes into the training of my personal dogs and ultimately my clients' dogs as well.