03/13/2025
Whatever discipline you ride you’ve probably read a book or two on how best to train or ride your horse. There will be a chapter on how to properly warm-up, then information on how to do different movements and maybe what it takes to score well in competition.
Somewhere along the lines humans created the idea of how horses should go depending upon what they are being used for. In Western reining they want the horses to be able to spin and slide, in saddle seat they want to see a very animated horse with a higher head-set, and in dressage they want to see the hind legs tracking up, and the horse on the bit. You could compare this to different types of workouts for people; there’s boot camp workouts, yoga, weightlifting all with their own set of ideals.
Now, imagine you have a group of people and you are trying to teach them to do a split. Perhaps one person is very flexible and can do the split immediately, one can’t do the split at all because they have an old injury and another is stiff and will need much more time to accomplish just the first steps of the split. The first person was very easy to teach of course because the split was natural for them, but how would you help the other two?
The person with the injury may never accomplish the split, but they could learn modified movements that can help their overall flexibility. The stiff person with time and patience can become more flexible and accomplish the split just like the first person.
As a dressage trainer I’ve read the books, watched videos and had many lessons to learn how things “should be done.” Many times I’ve felt like a failure when I haven’t been able to get a horse to move forward right away, or be soft and perfectly on the bit from the start. Just like teaching the person who can’t do the split from the get go, it can be frustrating when things don’t just happen easily and go “by the book.” 📚
What I’ve learned over the years is every horse is an individual and they all are going to have their own strengths and weaknesses. It’s my job as a trainer to find out how to help them be their best. I had one horse that had to be warmed up in what I’d call a “pony trot” until he felt loose enough to start tracking up. He had arthritis and his body just needed that time to warm up. Then there was a mare with a back issue that absolutely had to be warmed-up and mounted with her head stretched down low (think western pleasure) otherwise she would rear due to her back being pinched! In these cases some people may have thought things looked odd, and like nothing was going to be accomplished, but like that stiff person learning the split...the little baby steps can, and did lead to big accomplishments! 🏆
What I’m realizing more and more is how important it is to be open-minded and really try to feel and listen to the horse. Notice if your horse resists, and how? When do they get tight and when do they relax? And is there anything you can do to help? 🤔
I know I want to listen, teach, be supportive and help make positive changes for a better partnership for all the horses (and humans) I work with. You are the trainer teaching the “split” what kind of trainer do you want to be?