01/07/2026
I’ve shared my home with companion parrots for more than 30 years. I’m a nurturer by nature. So when I began volunteering with Lu’s rescue a few years ago, I thought I had a solid understanding of what saving birds meant.
I was wrong.
What I didn’t yet understand was how layered it would be, how often love alone wouldn’t be enough, and how much heartbreak could live alongside care.
The birds taught me that real rescue asks more.
It asks us to listen instead of assume.
To learn instead of judge.
To accept that good intentions don’t always lead to good outcomes.
There are moments that still break my heart. Quiet moments. Knowing that some of my feathered friends may never find a traditional “forever” home. Wondering what their future will look like. Sitting with that uncertainty more often than I ever expected to.
As the years have passed, my perspective has shifted from “forever at all costs” to ethical, bird-centered care that prioritizes each individual bird’s needs. I’ve learned compassion for the humans navigating impossible choices and deep respect for the birds who cannot bend to our expectations, no matter how much we wish they could.
Rescue isn’t about being heroes.
It’s about responsibility.
It’s about growing and doing better as we learn.
And it’s important to say this part out loud. Life with parrots, especially in rescue, is not a highlight reel. It’s not just the funny words, the dances, or the perfectly timed videos. It’s early mornings and late nights. It’s noise, mess, patience, routine, setbacks, and showing up every single day whether it’s convenient or not.
These birds are intelligent, emotional, and deeply complex. Caring for them is a 24/7 commitment that doesn’t pause when the camera turns off.
If fewer birds need rescue in the future because people understand that reality, choose with honesty, and prepare for the long haul, that will be the truest measure of success.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and thanks to everyone who supports the love of parrots 🫶🏼 ~ Dawn (volunteer)