08/23/2026
Downstairsat Cats Upstairs we have 2 resident cats, Matilda- about 10.5 and Manny- going on 7.
Matilda was a wild child, and in 2017 we made a pretty big move that disrupted her life, and her generally.
Without any research I decided she would love to have a sibling (?) or a cat she could mother... (have any of you done this?!)
I did not introduce them properly, I came home and said, "LOOK at this adorable baby I got for you!".and our whole house proceeded to concentrate our attention in the cutest kitten that ever kitten-ed!
Fast forward...
They are not bonded.
They hardly get along.
I provided one, top entry cat box- one cat tree- and one feeding station. (All big No-No's!)
Apparently about 50% of cat fights in multi-cat homes are actually boundary checks, which means my cats were maybe not having very serious issues. .. rather, they have been having a LOUD disagreements, about who can spend time where.
With opening Cats Upstairs I did- and continue to do- study cats. Reading, watching, and researching all things CAT.
We now have a dedicated cat room downstairs, we offer multiple places that cats can go high in 2 rooms, more window spaces (for bird watching), 3 cat boxes in multiple locations, and 2 different feeding stations.
I'm also playing with them more than I have since they were kittens.
My cats are still not bonded... but they are both happier than they have been in years! Spending more time with us, seeking our attention and it has been so rewarding (and humbling- plus, mom guilt!) to witness the changes in such a short time!
It wasn't too late to improve my cats quality of life.