
04/23/2025
Coaching/Riding instruction is not a one size fits all kind of gig.
While a huge goal as a coach is to be as form fitting and accommodating to each of our students and clients as possible, you will not be able to please every person.
You may not be as efficient in a particular discipline as another coach may be. You may not be loud enough. You may be too loud. You may be too critical. Or not critical enough. You may have time or travel constraints another coach may not have.
Amongst a wide variety of reasons, you may not fit a particular student or family.
Is that okay? Absolutely.
Is there anything wrong with you? In most cases, absolutely not.
That being said.. most of your fellow coaches are NOT your competitors.
You are coaches in the first place because you offer the knowledge of a skill set you worked your tail off to be able to perform efficiently yourself, and that’s desirable.
Let your reputation and clientele speak for you.
And encourage your fellow instructors. They aren’t your enemies.
We need more kindness and acceptance in the community.
To my fellow coaches; I hope you succeed at everything you put your mind to. Your knowledge is invaluable.
To my students and families that have been with me since the very beginning, and to the one’s that are just starting out;
Thank you for trusting in me to help guide future leaders, horsemen and women.