Paws and Reflect

Paws and Reflect 🚐 Full-time travel with a sensitive heeler
šŸ’­ Emotions, fulfillment, training, nuance

Scout has become a little more territorial the longer we’ve been in the same campsite here in the Florida Keys. Though s...
06/03/2026

Scout has become a little more territorial the longer we’ve been in the same campsite here in the Florida Keys. Though she still doesn’t even lift her head for anybody walking by on the road, she’s much more likely to alert bark when strangers actually enter our space now than she was a month ago. (We’ve even gotten a few of those under-her-breath growls.)

Aaand—as proud as I was of her total quiet composure in our initial weeks here—I am still that proud. I don’t mind her alerts. I think the behavior is not only understandable but also reasonable!

We usually move around so much in the van—our volunteer position is the first time we’re staying in one spot like this, really feeling like an area is *ours*. Scout is a herding breed whose ancestors were specifically selected to be protective of property. When she lets someone know she’s noticed their presence, she still readily takes cues (or more formal guidance, like her ā€œgo awayā€ crate command) from me and Sean. If the new person does invite her to approach them, she ignores them after .5 seconds of sniffing. Basically, 1) she keeps a nice level head and 2) no one ever feels unsafe.

Forever reminding myself of the lesson it took me years to learn when I first adopted her and was so overwhelmed (read: constantly spiraling into ā€œwhat ifsā€) by her fear reactivity: There’s not a problem unless there’s a problem.

It’s been a while since we asked Scout to be a patio dog, but she is still the very best at it. (When fulfilled and with...
05/27/2026

It’s been a while since we asked Scout to be a patio dog, but she is still the very best at it. (When fulfilled and with our support, of course 😁)

I always get nostalgic-proud of those years we spent sitting outside nearly every single morning, building her confidence and comfort and ability to be calm, when we get to just enjoy these scenarios on a whim now.

Makes me think about finding the balance in all the things, always: wanting to have a range of skills for flexibility; simultaneously thinking about which skills we really need; prioritizing accordingly; making sure my goals for us are actually, you know, mine (and not prescribed to me by the masses who don’t actually live with my dog day to day).

Does this first picture accurately sum up how obsessed I am with my dog?? šŸ˜‚But really: We’re one week past pub day of TH...
05/26/2026

Does this first picture accurately sum up how obsessed I am with my dog?? šŸ˜‚

But really: We’re one week past pub day of THE DOG LOVER’S BUCKET LIST, and I’m still flooded with lots of feelings, lots of gratitude. Thank you thank you thank you šŸ’›

05/25/2026

Also, how I know I’ve habituated to the gusty beach here: I quite literally did not realize how much my hair was in my face until I watched this back šŸ˜‚

Anyway. Scout plus lawn chair is a love story for the ages

Scout and I here with a very important message: Go play with your dog, if you’re able!!Play is still the single most imp...
05/22/2026

Scout and I here with a very important message: Go play with your dog, if you’re able!!

Play is still the single most important thing we do in a day. The foundation of our relationship and her reactivity progress and a whole lot of the joy we get to share. šŸ’›

ā€œDespite the fact that she’ll never be able to read this paragraph, I have to thank Scout Finch first. Had I not fallen ...
05/19/2026

ā€œDespite the fact that she’ll never be able to read this paragraph, I have to thank Scout Finch first. Had I not fallen for her pointy ears and speckled while visiting the shelter on a cold December day—and had she not been so willing to love me back, to give it her all even when she was scared, to stick with us through three apartments and a house and now a converted van—this book would not exist. My career would not exist. So much of my life’s joy would not exist!ā€

Thanks to everyone who made this first milestone real. Thanks to Nicole and Katey and the rest of . Thanks to for letting me experience holding my book in a real, lovely local shop. Thanks to you, here, in this social media community. Thanks to those cheering alongside me for my dream hybrid memoir to happen next. Thank you thank you thank you!!

Scout didn’t know I rescued her. She didn’t understand what happened when animal control picked her up wandering the str...
05/13/2026

Scout didn’t know I rescued her. She didn’t understand what happened when animal control picked her up wandering the streets, when her stray hold expired at the shelter after no one came looking, when she was put up for adoption and stress-chewed her way through everything soft in her kennel. She didn’t know that my face meant freedom. How could she have?

Our bond wasn’t automatic. And I think, looking back, that this relationship is sweeter for the effort it demanded.

I’d rather be chosen day in and day out because of my ongoing actions than lauded in perpetuity because I simply signed an adoption contract.

And I believe in nuance over generalizations, especially about the complex dog-human bond, always! šŸ’›

On May 19th—less than two weeks from today!—I will officially be a PUBLISHED AUTHOR. My nine-year-old self can’t believe...
05/07/2026

On May 19th—less than two weeks from today!—I will officially be a PUBLISHED AUTHOR. My nine-year-old self can’t believe it. She is so incredibly proud of us.

This process has held so much varied emotion. That’s how I feel when it comes to caring for a sensitive dog and also everything else in my life: few things are simple and small. But the texture, I remind myself, is rich and beautiful and honest and necessary, and it makes me me—and it makes Scout her—and right now I am just so thrilled to be sitting next to a pile of books with my name on them. (And always so thrilled to be sitting next to this dog.)

I hope with everything I have to make this only the beginning of my literary career. THANK YOU to everyone here, in this community of dog lovers with all our own experiences and perceptions and situations, who has ever read any post I’ve ever written. You helped me make this happen. šŸ’›

If you know any new dog lovers in your life who would benefit from an introductory inspiration-education-journal guide, please consider sending THE DOG LOVER’S BUCKET LIST their way.

Thank you thank you thank you thank you!!

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