04/29/2026
This is something I teach at every seminar and shadow program. And while it might seem wildly simplistic, or wildly obvious, or wildly incomplete… it’s also wildly helpful if applied with a bit of thought.
I find far too many trainers (and owners) focusing on preset, cookie-cutter training systems and advice—and then they’re left with behavior, attitude, and relationship issues still unaddressed.
And while having a foundational set of skills and behaviors you teach all dogs is of course normal, and smart, if it stops there it leaves a large gap as to what needs a deeper focus for the individual dog.
Which is where the behavioral problem solving compass comes in. What is the dog overly intense about doing, and what is the dog overly intense about not doing?
If a dog is polite, patient, and only mildly excited about coming out of the crate, and also happily walks into the crate when asked—do you need to spend a bunch of time on crate drills? No. Because there’s no behavioral, attitude, or relationship value to be gained by doing so.
Conversely, if the dog begins to spool up and levitate as you approach the crate door, and once it’s opened a hair, they attempt to blast through it, AND when you ask them to go in the crate they perform the canine version of Spider-Man and absolutely refuse to enter the crate—do you need to spend a bunch of time on crate drills? You freaking bet. Because there’s a ton of behavioral, attitude, and relationship value to be gained by doing so.
If you extend this out to all your daily interactions with your dog, and you scan the behavioral horizon for any “Man, I’m SO gonna do that, ain’t no one gonna stop me!” moments, and any “Man, I SO don’t want to do that, ain’t no one gonna make me!” moments, you’ll be focusing your training energies in the right place—and you’ll be making tons of behavioral, attitude, and relationship progress.
PS, this doesn’t mean your dog can’t be excited about something, and that every moment needs to micromanaged and controlled. And it also doesn’t mean your dog can’t be reluctant about something, without being forced to deal with it. Remember at the top where I said this needs to be applied with a bit of thought—aka common sense. It’s a simple guide to assess where there might be problems worth addressing, and also how much time and energy you should dedicate to the issue… or not.