05/12/2026
"My dad always said they can learn more from a (tie) post than most people can teach them."
I read that in a buckaroo group the other day.
I can confirm it's incredibly humbling to realize this...
A few years ago, I experimented with doing a preliminary tie week with client horses, and found out it did more good than an extra week of groundwork.
Talk about an ego killer.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying tying fixes everything, or that tying is a replacement for correct training.
I'm saying I learned I was doing both too much, and not enough.
Tying gave them the time and experience I had been neglecting to.
The calm daily routine of standing tied with their hay bag gave them the time they needed to get comfortable with the sights and sounds of unfamiliar facilities, and to get some passive exposure watching me work other horses.
Starting out with a 'herd tie, they learned not to worry as buddies and strange horses came and went, and we built more duration and distance each day.
I don't think it's helpful to start working on relationship or training until we get this other stuff out of the way. Every time we have to contend against it, we inevitably become the bad guy.
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Tying has become a bit of a lost art.
Some consider it to be something that's cruel or unfair.
It can be.
But horses already know how to stand around and just hang out and take a nap, so if we approach tying the right way, it can be the same.
And so much more.
- Circa 2023
I run into a lot of horses where people say, they won’t tie, but as long as they’re with me or we’re training, it’s fine.
To me, that’s not a self-regulated horse, that’s a horse who’s being distracted and micromanaged, or whose actual emotional state is being overshadowed.
With this guy, who had a lot of frustration from being an aggressive former stallion, it took him a couple weeks of routine tying for him to be able to just hang out and observe, and the incredible peace that came over him when he realized that he doesn’t need to be involved in every activity was moving.