11/03/2025
One thing that sucks about training dogs is that sometimes you have to say things you know are hard for pet parents to hear.
Take Sonny and Ralpiefor example. When their Mom decidedto get them, she did with the best of intentions. Having a pr***en and a young teenager, her plan was for the household have "family pets." When the puppies were wee little, things seemed to be goung well. Unfortunately, as the puppies got bigger, the nivelty wore off, and they become "Mom's responsibility."
Mom addressed all their needs...potty training, feeding, sleeping, etc. They kids would put in a hslf-hearted effort that would lead to disputes as to the "right way" to do things. Before long, the kids lost interest. When Mom tries to involve the kids or task them to help the pups, the pups really do not want anything to do with them. They want Mom.
Now, the kids do not want to even try. They are virtually disgusted with the pups and consider them "Mom's dogs." ๐ญ This is not what their Mom wanted...at all. I am sure some Moms reading this can relate.
I get what happened, but we have to get the kids involved. We need them to stay motivated and interested in the dogs; otherwise, the separation anxiety when not with Mom will only get worse.
We discussed ways for Mom to take a backseat to help get the dogs to actively seek out the kids, BUT it might not happen. Dogs pick their people. Yes, it is often the perswho meets their basic life needs, but energy also comes into play. Fogs gravitate towards the consistent person, the one who is not ignoring them.
This may take time, but if the dynamics are going to change, we must help set the stage.
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