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10/20/2025

To be effective, horse trainers have to discover where the thresholds of every horse they train are, and every horse is different. A threshold is a boundary or point at which a new state, condition, or action begins.

When I get a new prospect my first goal is to understand where their thresholds of fight or flight and attention span are. To do this I provoke the horse and observe their reactions. One tool I use for this is a string of various pot lids from a thrift store.

To make this tool you need a three foot length of large baling twine and some old pot lids. You drill a hole in the lids in every pot lid for the twine and then sting the lids like beads with a knot tied on each side of every lid to keep them evenly spaced apart.

The pictures of horse trainers show them desensitizing horses. The trainer on the left is giving the horse plenty of space to go past the umbrella, therefore this is not very intense desentization. The trainer on the right is more aggressive or provocative, waving the tarp at the horse's face.

Note that both the trainers have control of their horses using long reins or lines and a long lead or lunge line. Both demonstrate very common desensitization techniques. Both are mostly visual desentizing methods, as is the common use of flags.

Because horses have 35% better hearing than humans, I like to use a lot of sound techniques when I train. I use voice at all the steps in training both for correction and for reward. I also use a wiffle ball bat, a very safe child's toy, instead of a whip for corrections because of the sound it makes. A wiffle ball bat doesn't hurt a horse but it makes a disturbing almost metallic like sound on impact. Beware, there are red or blue knockoff wiffle ball bats but they make ineffective thud sounds. Avoid them and stick with the authentic yellow bats.

The string of pot lids is a sound based training tool. I learned about it from Leroy Fisher, an Amish horse trainer I greatly respect. He lived near me in PA and moved years ago to the Mohawk Valley near Utica NY to farm. If you know him, tell him I said Hi.

With all horses, particularly young ones, I do not have the horse under my control with a lead, lunge line or long lines. I have them at liberty in a round pen. This is because I am more interested in building a relationship of trust with them and the desentizing is a secondary goal.

With the horse in the round pen, I enter quietly carrying the string of lids. Because the prospect is new, they usually keep their distance. I get about ten or fifteen feet away from the horse that is standing watching me and I gently toss the string of pot lids to the ground away from me and the horse to the side of both of us. The first lid toss always sends the horse into a leap away from the lids, not away from me. I remain standing still. The horse stops, looks at the lids and then looks at me most of the time.

The point I want the horse to get is something shocking just happened and they are OK, and I am still standing there. I then crouch down to the ground facing away from the horse and wait for the horse's curiosity to draw them to me. Most do. Some come up and smell me.

I get up slowly, and I quietly pick up the string of lids. I repeat the lid toss and all that follows as before. I stand closer to the horse when I repeat the lid toss, which is a little closer to the horse each time. While this is desentization, my main purpose is to send the message that "I am still here and everything is OK. No one is getting hurt. We are in this together."

Each toss of the lids desensitizes and lowers the horse's threshold of fear of the sound. Because this is done at liberty, the flight impulse is stronger than fight. I want flight and don't want to cross the horse's threshold into a fight response. However, some horses will respond to this drill with fight at some point, which is to be avoided. When a horse goes to fight, I have gone too far and crossed their fight-flight threshold.

During this process I constantly look for signs of diminished attention span because I do not want to push the prospect into their fight mode from the lids. To gauge where the horse is at in terms of potential fight, I will grab a handful or a pinch of the horse's skin to measure their stress level. Horses getting ready to fight tighten their skin to limit another horse's ability to bite them. They also begin to pin their ears back. A horse is more apt to go into fight mode when stressed, so, we take breaks when their stress is approaching their fight threshold to restore their attention.

I do not think of this lid tossing process as pressure release, but rather as sharing a stressful experience with a horse while I am the steady predictable leader. This is the "I'm still here" school of horse training. It's leadership combined with friendship.

Later on, after trust and friendship begins to be established, I will use the pot lids again but this time it is more focused on desensitization. By now the horse and I know and understand each other. I will then drop the lids on the ground while I stand next to them. I will toss the lids under the horse. I will lay the sting of lids across their back and eventually toss the lids on to their butt until they do not respond.

Measuring a horse's flight-fight and their attention span takes time and experience to learn and understand. If you try this technique and have little understanding of the fight-flight and attention span thresholds, you have to be very careful not to trigger the fight impulse while you escalate the process. Be a sensitive leader. Stay safe while you stand your ground as the leader. Remember it's the "I'm still here" method. Don't be a threat, be there present in the moment with the noise and they will want to be with you, the steady leader.

What a month it’s been!Valor and I have been on fire — kicking things off with an obstacle competition where we flew thr...
10/19/2025

What a month it’s been!
Valor and I have been on fire — kicking things off with an obstacle competition where we flew through the course in just 6.45 minutes! Every challenge was handled with calm precision and total trust, showing just how far our partnership has come. Huge thanks to for capturing the magic!
Not stopping there, we stepped into our first dressage show (with a few jump classes thrown in for fun!) and brought home blues and reds. The confidence, focus, and connection we’ve built really shone — all that time, patience, and consistency are paying off in such a rewarding way.
Meanwhile, Remedy’s been having his own breakthrough. He’s coming out of his shell more and more, growing braver with each new experience and showing just how much heart he has. I’m so proud of how far he’s come, and can’t wait to see where his confidence takes him next.
Moments like these remind me why I do this — not just for my own horses, but for the clients who want to build this same kind of trust, confidence, and connection with theirs. It’s about creating partnerships that last far beyond home, the show ring, or the trail — one thoughtful step at a time.

Remedy has made so much progress in such a short time. The halter still makes him nervous, but now we can work through i...
10/14/2025

Remedy has made so much progress in such a short time. The halter still makes him nervous, but now we can work through it instead of avoiding it. He’s starting to move with me, trust me, and look to people for support. There’s still plenty to work on, but I’m so proud of how far he’s come.

10/09/2025

Time.
It’s easy to feel like things aren’t moving fast enough, but horses run on a different clock. They only make real progress when given the chance to figure things out in their own time. Rushing just creates fear, anxiety, and even injury.

This was Remedy’s first time seeing this kind of obstacle. I let him stop, think, and process — and he walked right through. Even when the gate clanged, he chose to pause and think instead of panic. That’s the goal: teaching him to regulate instead of react.

Sometimes the best thing you can do is stop, breathe, and take a simple walk. Slowing down gives both horse and human the chance to process the “scary” and the stressful.

10/05/2025

I take things at the horse’s pace. I try not to get stuck in the what-ifs. If you start bracing for disaster, your horse feels it—and suddenly they’re doing the very things you were afraid of. Anxiety creates anxiety.
The last two youngsters I’ve started, I let them tell me when they were ready. My only thought was, “Let’s see what happens.”
Today I hopped on Remedy on a whim. Whatever he gave me, I’d handle it. He didn’t put a hoof wrong. Another filly, after weeks of groundwork, told me she was ready—so I just listened and said, “Let’s see.”
That trust in the work we’ve done, and in my read on their minds, makes the first ride, first trip, or first show smooth. Sure, they might act up. But how I handle it is what matters. Feed into anxiety, and they’ll carry that forever. Meet it with calm, and they’ll try—and keep trying—for you.
Confidence breeds calm. Horses make sure you learn that lesson, every time.

**Original audio included**

 

5 Minutes a DaySomeone once told me, “If you pull out a horse every day just to brush him for 5 minutes, he’ll still be ...
10/01/2025

5 Minutes a Day
Someone once told me, “If you pull out a horse every day just to brush him for 5 minutes, he’ll still be better than if you never touched him.”

I think about that often when I’m short on time or energy. Even a few minutes—walking in-hand, tying, grooming, or moving their feet—goes further than skipping altogether. Some horses even thrive more with short, frequent sessions than with long ones spread out. Whether it’s a project, a baby, or a seasoned horse, 5 minutes a day adds up.

Foggy mornings 🥰🌄
09/26/2025

Foggy mornings 🥰🌄

A trainer’s job is more than just training horses—it’s reading pain vs behavior, weakness vs illness, hoof issues vs lam...
09/17/2025

A trainer’s job is more than just training horses—it’s reading pain vs behavior, weakness vs illness, hoof issues vs lameness. It’s being a coach, a friend, and an anchor for both horse and rider. True horsemanship means putting the horse first, even when it’s hard.

This handsome red gelding, Chill, had little experience—he’d barely been trailered, never been off property, never seen water. But when asked, he stepped up like a seasoned trail horse. His owner realized she hadn’t given him the chance to show her what he could be. Her confidence soared that day.

A year of watching me work both her gelding and young filly gave her the reassurance she needed. Yesterday, we backed the filly for the first time. Now, instead of selling, she sees a future with both as her trail partners. Sometimes it just takes time, trust, and a little help.

. A very positive update on Remedy!!!As a horseman, I’m always learning — horses are the best teachers if you’re willing...
09/15/2025

. A very positive update on Remedy!!!
As a horseman, I’m always learning — horses are the best teachers if you’re willing to listen. Remedy has been a real challenge, and I had to step up to meet it. After sharing my doubts last week, I reached out to a trusted mentor about that frustrating “two steps forward, five back” feeling.
Her advice? One of the worst things you can do with a nervous or unhandled horse is let them lean on the herd too much. So, I changed his routine. Now Remedy only has a buddy over the fence during the day (when Valor isn’t napping under his fan).
The shift has been incredible. He’s looking to people more, seeking us out for scratches and play, and leaning on me for answers when he’s unsure. This week, he tackled obstacles I thought would take us several sessions to work through — even braving the tarp and banner that used to terrify him. Today, not only did he touch them, he let me rub the banner all over him.
He truly is a special horse, and I can’t wait to see what he grows into.

An update on RemedyThis boy is proving to be every bit the project horse — and maybe more than I was ready for. Sometime...
09/11/2025

An update on Remedy
This boy is proving to be every bit the project horse — and maybe more than I was ready for. Sometimes the horse you think you’re getting isn’t the horse who shows up.
When Remedy came home, it became clear that he had almost no real handling or experience. Groundwork, picking up his feet, even trusting people — it’s all brand new to him. He’s quick to avoid, pull back, or shut down before trying to work through anything uncomfortable. That’s a massive challenge, and it means progress will be slow and sometimes frustrating.
The bright spot is his sweetness. Underneath the worry and uncertainty, there’s a good heart. He’s already met the vet, farrier, and chiropractor, and each time went a little better than the last. That gives me hope.
For now, that’s what I’m holding on to — and with time, step by step, we’ll see where this road takes him.

 

It’s official – the arena, round pen, and dry lot at Painted Maple Farm are finished! 🎉This means we can work horses yea...
09/09/2025

It’s official – the arena, round pen, and dry lot at Painted Maple Farm are finished! 🎉

This means we can work horses year-round, turn out more often during bad weather, and give them time off grass when needed.

Remedy got the honor of being the first to use the new round pen (and of course, he looked handsome doing it 😍). He’s really starting to come out of his shell—more on him soon!

The new space means more consistency, more progress, and more fun for both horses and riders. We can’t wait to see what the next season brings!

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