Moonlit Meadows Performance Horses, LLC

Moonlit Meadows Performance Horses, LLC Quality care, quality horses. Lessons, training, Horses 4 Heroes, reining, ranch versatility, cross
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To provide Exceptional Quality Care to our horses, Exceptional Quality Service to our clients, and Exceptional Quality Equipment to our customers. Moonlit Meadows Country Store offers the finest in new & used working tack, with some FUN novelties and antiques.

Great things take time.
07/12/2025

Great things take time.

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07/12/2025

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A RIDING HORSE FIRST

How many people do you know who can ride their horse with a long, loopy rein and just go somewhere at a relaxed forward trot? No rushing. Just point and go somewhere straight and with no tension - on an open trail or in an arena.

For a long time, I have been trying to convince people that before we decide to train a horse for any particular discipline, competition, performance, etc, we must first train it to be a riding horse. Being a riding horse is the first thing a horse must learn before it can excel at any discipline.

The notion behind teaching a horse to be a riding horse is to help them become comfortable and familiar with the preparation of being caught, brushed, fitted with headgear and saddle, carrying a rider at all gaits, yielding its thought to the rider’s reins, legs, and seat. It’s about teaching a horse to feel okay when a rider takes off a jacket, mounts from the right side, opens a gate from horseback, bashes through the bush, has dogs running joyfully around, walks through puddles and streams, and over bridges. It’s about a horse learning to feel okay if it were ridden by a 10-year-old with a mischievous, carefree, adventurous spirit.

So much of the time, a horse comes home from being started by a trainer and is expected to go on a program of turning it into a show jumper, a barrel racer, or a team roper. This often happens long before the horse is comfortable with its new life as a riding horse.

I have watched quite a few c**t starting clinics, and it seems very normal that on the first ride people are not expected to do much more than sit on their horse and let it go where its mind takes it. Most clinicians I’ve seen tell the student to go with the horse, do a few turns here and there, and stay out of the way of the horse. I understand the sense of allowing a horse to just become familiar with somebody in the saddle without too much interference.

But by the third or fourth day, the clinician is encouraging the students to do a lot more directing and less passenger riding. I’ve even heard a couple of well-known clinicians espouse that by the third or fourth day under saddle, the horse should be on the payroll with a job to do. Without doubt, there is the occasional horse that might be ready to go to work by then. But in my opinion, such horses are rare. Most horses do not yet have ingrained in their brain that having a human sitting on their back is perfectly fine and normal by the third or fourth ride. It still feels uncomfortable, perhaps scary, and maybe even life-threatening for many.

Horses are incredibly submissive by nature. Without the level of submission most horses possess, we would not be able to ride them and certainly not get away with doing many of the things we do to them (like loading into a float or face up to a charging bull). However, just because a horse succumbs to our will without protesting does not mean he feels okay about it or that what we do is good horsemanship. Obedience is neither a measure of the quality of training nor the emotional comfort of a horse.

It is so important that a horse feels okay with just having a rider and being directed before any of the next steps of turning it into our dream horse are started. If a horse feels anxiety about walking, trotting, or cantering around a paddock with somebody on its back, how can it possibly be ready to teach to jump a log, perform at speed, rope a steer, or work in collection?

I know horses that months and years after being started still hump or buck when the saddle girth is tightened or fidget when being saddled. I know horses that can’t be walked, trotted, or cantered on a loose rein without rushing. I know horses that fling their head when being bridled. I know horses that won’t stand still when being mounted. I know horses that won’t move forward when a rider’s leg is applied. I know horses that can’t trot without their head being held so high you can’t see their ears through the clouds. All these things are common even after years of being ridden.

These things are just very basic, fundamental things that should not be a problem for any horse that feels okay about being a riding horse. The list of what it takes to be a comfortable riding horse is much longer than what I have indicated, and it is rare to find a horse that exhibits no sign of trouble with the fundamentals.

A horse can sometimes benefit more from just being ridden than being trained. This means instead of picking on every little mistake, we just ride. We are more patient and more tolerant if they change gait or rhythm, or get a little crooked, or their thought strays a little more than we like. Just take a long, loopy rein and ride somewhere. It could be an arena, a trail, a paddock, the desert, or bush. Stop training on them for a while and just get them feeling ok about having somebody on their back and going somewhere. When that doesn’t feel so terrible to them, then think about your training again. It’s training without training.

Sometimes it takes a horse many days to develop a firm feeling of comfort with the basics of being a riding horse. Sometimes it takes weeks. Sometimes it takes months or years, and sometimes it may never happen. But in our impatience or our ignorance, we rush or gloss over the part of training that helps our horses become okay with just being ridden. We are in such a hurry to make them the horse we want them to be one day that we leave holes in their education and trouble in their emotions. The irony is that often it’s our hurry that slows our progress or possibly even brings it to a halt. When a horse is comfortable with the basics of being ridden, you’ll be astounded how quickly the rest will fall into place.

Photo: Michèle and I riding in Arizona.

07/08/2025

Sometimes the arenas are multi- use!

We share this sentiment!  Many mares don't get the basics of care- proper nutrition, hoof care, deworming, handling...  ...
07/05/2025

We share this sentiment! Many mares don't get the basics of care- proper nutrition, hoof care, deworming, handling... They're the money makers and they barely get noticed.
Ours are part of our family. Most have had successful riding careers- some in the show pen, some as family/lesson favorites.

Too many broodmares spend their lives as strangers to people. Only handled to be bred and living the rest of their lives like a wild animal.

They stand in mud with overgrown hooves, never groomed, never handled, many aren't even halter broke and only stampeded place to place.

That’s not breeding for a quality foal, because you don't even KNOW the mare; her personality, her brains, her trainability. If she can trust and work with a human partner. These are traits that should be considered extremely important when breeding for a future partner as well.

At our farm, our mares aren't second-class citizens. They get the same feed, vet care, and respect as our show horses, and we don't skimp when it comes to pre-natal and foaling care either.

Because a mare isn’t a printer for more foals. She’s MORE than half the equation. It's her genetics that pass to the foal, but also her attitude and smarts in raising that foal the first part of their life. And if you don’t love and know the mare, you’re not breeding for quality. You’re just producing inventory.

Buyers: Look past the foal. Ask how the mare lives. That’s what you're paying for when you bring a foal home.

07/05/2025

LOVE watching running babies!

Available!  A long with other new and used tack, equipment, and antiques!
07/05/2025

Available! A long with other new and used tack, equipment, and antiques!

Not on auction
New -tag missing
Oxbow (tag reads 36", but measures 34")
Double strand Mohair.
$45 plus shipping.

07/05/2025

Little Leche just loves hanging out with Auntie Holly!

07/05/2025

It's important to us our horses get to experience different situations. We routinely rotate pastures to give them a new view, terrain, size and grazing opportunities.

07/03/2025

Down the trail and around the yard to see all the things! (And yes, she looks like our Stella!)

07/03/2025

This sweet young mare comes from a great program and had a great start. Now she's here to learn about life outside her home farm and all the things Rafael can show her. Regardless of the experience these horses have prior to coming, Rafael starts them slow and steady. She's getting some conditioning by walks, stops, turns and then out to the trails.

07/03/2025

Gabriel and Rafael showed this incredible 2 year old around the farm yesterday.
She's had incredible handling by her owner, and is a joy to have here!

07/03/2025

Gabriel is back to work, as assistant trainer to Raphael, showing the newbies around.

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