03/14/2026
Something I should not have to talk about or disclose publicly, however since everybody wants to talk about it I will address this.
I had a 2 year restraining order granted against my ex boyfriend in December of 2025. The initial emergency protection order was filed in October.
The specific events that resulted in the emergency one include my ex boyfriend drinking and driving, making threats to me, then threatening to kill himself in front of me if I had an intervention. This resulted in the initial emergency protective order. He was also taken to the hospital.
The build up before hand included sexual violence to me, threats, mental manipulation, throwing things, slamming things, and so much more. While moving and being able to file a restraining order immediately got me out. I am still dealing with the aftermath of everything he did to me and then proceeded to do after the initial order was granted. What followed were events of him having people showing up to my property on 4 separate occasions. Him attempting to report me for things to retaliate. Him going to competitors in the industry. Then so much more.
In court he didn't argue against the sexual violence, the throwing things, slamming things, etc. Not once. He just tried to claim he would lose his job due to security clearance and saw a therapist. That was it. When the judge ruled for the order to be granted he immediately stormed out before being dismissed, ran out and screamed "She fu***ng won." And started storming into another court room. Multiple baliffs had to intervene and i was immediately rushed out of the court room.
Here it is, March of 2026. Im still dealing with his aftermath while everybody attempts to talk about it. Come directly to me. Stop talking behind my back. Stop acting like you know everything that happened. What you are contributing to directly affects me and my family. This is continuing to add to the trauma this man already gave me. Even if you do not like me, that is no reason to be talking about what I went through and what he has continued to do since.
I am just simply trying to live. Please do the right thing and stop talking about me and my traumas, stop sharing things with other people, stop gossiping about me. If you have questions or what to say something, come to me directly.
Thank you.
