09/03/2026
Is there something wrong, or am I crazy?
So my girl is freshly 1 years old, and the first 10 months were⦠mental. I was at the point where I had no idea what the rest of my life was going to look like
Fast forward to her first season 6 weeks ago, and the dog thatās come out the other side (sheās now 1 as of two days ago) is completely different.
For home life context, weāre a couple household with no children, and we both work from home, so weāre always here. We went away for a week 4 weeks ago and she stayed with my mum at our house, and weāve come home to a completely different dog (my mum adores her so nothing happened, itās seems our girl is just fundamentally different now). When we got home from holiday, we changed her from crate sleeping at night to sleeping in our room.
So whereas before she was absolutely nutty at all hours and we often had to enforce naps, sheās now the polar opposite. She now would nap around the bedroom at night for 12 hours if I let her, and then sheās up for her breakfast and a quick play before napping again. She again wakes up for her walk time, then when weāre home she naps again until dinner time. The hours of a day that sheās asleep seem to be racking up to 18 hours a day?! And itās often a deep sleep.
I feel like sheās just always tired and wants to sleep, and this just doesnāt feel right. She still plays hard when engaged, and she still has bouts of crazy on her walks, but I feel like those moments extinguish faster than the used to.
Am I crazy, or is something wrong? Iām worried Iāve been walking her too hard (on a forest for 1-1.5 hours once a day) and have given her hip dysplasia? Is that crazy? She sometimes lags at about the 75% mark, so Iām terrified that Iāve overdone it with her. Sheās just so well behaved and just sleeps hard all the time that I canāt help but feel that something is wrong.
We took her to the vets for the lack of energy about two weeks ago and we were given dog ibuprofen after her season, which I feel like helped a little, but sheās still just so fatigued and I am stressssssed about it.
Once thing of note is that when she runs at full whack, her back legs move together, then as soon as she slows down a fraction, sheās back to alternating trot. Iāve ended up in a stress hole thinking thatās not okay.
Someone please help either calm me down or tell me to go somewhere I feel like I live at the vets with how often I take her for something, but sheās literally my entire world.
EDIT: When weāre out and about, sheās not falling asleep anywhere and doesnāt settle; it seems to only be when sheās at home that she sleeps all the time