10/05/2026
Yesterday, the Chasing Tails family lost a very important member. ❤️
If you've been around Chasing Tails for a while, there's a good chance you've heard me talk about Toby. Some of you met him. Some of your dogs worked with him. Others probably just knew him as the little old man who occasionally made an appearance on this page.
But Toby was so much more than just my dog.
For 12 years, he was my companion, my guinea pig, my coworker, and eventually, my trusted senior teacher dog.
Long before Chasing Tails existed, Toby was teaching me.
He challenged me. He frustrated me. He made me think. He forced me to become a better communicator and a better trainer. And as Chasing Tails grew, he stepped into a new role — helping other dogs learn, too.
Toby had a wonderful ability to just exist around other dogs. He helped me give dogs opportunities to practice being near another dog without pressure. He helped puppies learn. He helped nervous dogs build confidence. He helped me observe, teach, and problem-solve.
He was never a "perfectly trained dog."
In fact, anyone who knows me personally is probably laughing at the very idea. 😂
Toby was stubborn. He had opinions. He was an absolute pain in my ass. He spent his entire 12 years of life believing that p*eing in the house was a perfectly reasonable lifestyle choice.
And I think that's part of what made him such an important dog for me as a trainer.
Dogs don't have to be perfect to be good dogs.
Training doesn't create robots. Behavior is complicated. Dogs are individuals. Sometimes the dog who teaches you the most isn't the perfectly behaved one — it's the one who makes you keep learning.
Toby certainly made me keep learning.
Yesterday, I had to make the incredibly difficult decision to let my old man go.
Chasing Tails will continue. There will be more classes, more puppies, more behavior cases, and more dogs who need help.
But there will never be another Toby.
A piece of Chasing Tails left with him yesterday, because a piece of Chasing Tails was built because of him.
Thank you for everything you taught me, buddy.
Thank you for helping me teach so many others.
And thank you for 12 years of being an absolutely ridiculous pain in my ass.
Rest easy, Professor Toby. ❤️🐾