The Victim's of Circumstance

11/01/2022

10/23/2022

10/23/2022

I pets believe that we are all responsible for our own destiny's, however, there are instances in which circumstances or the acts of others put us in a position in which we aren't in control of the situation.
Being a "VICTIM OF CIRCUMSTANCE" is not only a helpless feeling, it's a very unfortunate position to be in.
It's amazing how one decision, made by one person can affect so many others. Someone else's decision can put others in Inimate danger, cause heartbreak and mental anguish, ruin countless lives or even cause deaths of others. I know from experience!
Please, before making. major decision, think about how many others will be impacted or DESTROYED!
ONLY A PERSON WITH NO CONSCIOUS COULD ACTUALLY BE CAPABLE OF BEING SO SELF CENTERED AS TO MAKE A SELFISH DECISION KNOWING IT WILL DESTROY OTHERS.... DESTROY THOSE THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO LOVE!
FOR EXAMPLE,. "HOMEWRECKERS", THERE ARE SO MEN IN THE WORLD, SO WHY PICK A MAN A FAMILY AND DESTROY. THEIR HOME.... RIGHT KAREN?

03/16/2022

I fear for our children that have to live with the mess left behind.... If there is anything left!

03/16/2022

MY FATHER (ADOLF BERG) .... TES, THAT WAS REALLY HIS NAME! MY DAD WAS BORN IN UKRAINE, JAN
11, 1941 AND THE "UNITED STATES OF AMERICA" SAVED MY DAD, HIS PARENTS, 2 BROTHERS AND HIS 2 SISTERS WHEN THE "RED CROSS" PUT THEM ON A SHIP AND BROUGHT THEM TO "AMERICA" WHEN HE WAS 11 YEARS OLD. MY HEART IS ACHING SEEING HISTORY REPEAT ITSELF IN UKRAINE.... JUST A DIFFERENT MONSTER.... THE TYRANT THAT IS THE SO CALLED PRESIDENT (OR WHATEVER HE IS ) OF RUSSIA. HE US NO DIFFERENT THEN "HI**ER"..... GOD BLESS AMERICA.... AND GOD BLESS AND EASE THE HORROR AND PAIN OF THE INNOCENT VICTIMS OF UKRAINE!!!! THE HORROR OF IT ALL. WOULDN'T YOU PRAY FOR A HERO TO COME SAVE YOU? PROBLEM US NUCLEAR WEAPONS HAVE COME A LONG WAY SINCE THE 50'S. I THINK THAT MAYBE HE FOUND OUT HE IS TERMINALLY ILL OR SOMETHING AND IN HIS SICK MIND FIGURES HE WILL MAKE HIS MARK ON THE WORLD OR MAYBE EVEN TAKE THE WORLD OUT WITH HIM. SCARY THOUGHT!!!!

01/31/2022

Have you ever been at the wrong place at the wrong time and ended up with a gun pointed at your ???
13 Have you ever been t he victim of someone else's decision ""A Z SO. POWERFUL THAT YOUR ENTIRE LIFE IS RUINED.... A DECISION SO PAINFUL AND SO DEVASTATING THAT EVEN AFTER 20 YEARS THE PAIN IS STILL SO INTENSE THERE LIKE IT JUST HAPPENED .

12/26/2021

There was a time I my life that I didn't believe that our "PROTECTOR'S" could be capable of the horrific actions of abuse in how the abuse of their POWER WAS SO DAM "REAL!"
THAT IS UNTIL I REALIZED THE TRUTH AFTER BECOMING A VICTIM OF ABUSE MYSELF!
At the time I was about 29 years old, living in South Baltimore. "PIGTOWN, MD' ( ONE OF THE MOST POVERTY STICKEN AREAS OF " BALTIMORE CITY, MD"). Not to mention one of the most CORRUPTED AREA OF LAW ENFORCEMENT THAT NO ONE WOULD BELIEVE, BECAUSE THE OFFICERS WORD WAS ALWAYS THE "TRUTH!"
I was about 29 years old wheny life took a a very serious TURN FOR THE WORST.. I HAD COMMITTED A VERY SERIOUS CRIME IN WHICH I WILL REGRET FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE... I BEGAN BORROWING MONEY FROM WORK, SND IN THE BEGINNING I HONESTLY WAS PAYING IT BACK AND IT WAS MY INTENTION TO PAY BACK EVERY PENNY! UNFORTUNATELY, THINGS BECAME SLOPPY AND I BECAME TIRED OF WORRYING ABOUT WALKING ITO WORK AND BEING CONFRONTED I PERSON. THEREFORE, I WAS READY GOR IT TO ALL BE OVER WITH.
So I took off on the 3rd of the month when I knew that BANK STATEMENTS WOULD BE DUE IN THE MAIL. YES, I DELIBERATELY TOOK OFF KNOWING THE TRUTH WOULD BE DISCOVERED!

I WORKED AT A DUNKIN DONUTS,, THEN LANDED A JOB AS A FILING CLERK AT " PETER G ANGELOS, ESQ. I got lucky when the Secretary just up and quit. So I just took it upon myself to take over all of her duties

So that's exactly what I did, without being asked I took it upon myself, to just take over all of her duties... I was so glad i did, because "THE NEXT THING I KNEW I WAS OFFERED THE " LEGAL SECRETARY OF THE ESTATES AND TRUST" DEPT. LEGAL SECRETARY POSITION.

I continued to work for "THE LAW OFFICES OF PETER G ANGELOS, ESQ. FOR THE NEXT TWO YEARS.

I was then offered a job in office management with unlimited potential for Growth!. I was hired as " THE ASSISTANT ADMINISTRATOR OF AN EXTREMELY LARGE AND PROSPEROUS LAW FIRM .
After working in that COMPACITY for a couple of months, I was then offered a several PROMOTIONAL OPPORTUNITIES WHICH CARRIED MANY DIFFERENT TITLES............FIRST I REMAINED THE ASSISTANT ADMISISTRATOR , I BECAME THE BILLING SUPERVISOR, CHIEF FINANCE MANAGER, PAYROLL MANAGER, INSURANCE ADMISISTRATOR AND THE HUMAN RESOURCE MANAGER. MY NEW TITLES ALSO CAME WITH "TWO ASSISTANTS"...... ONE "BILLING ASST." AND THE OTHER MY "PERSONAL ASST"
I am sharing this information so that I can share my background and perhaps my stories will be more understandable and perhaps maybe it will help my readers identify with the pain and tragedies that I've suffered since then.

OMG, JUST HOW DID I GET HERE?

OFFICER FRIENDLY (¿?) SAID "WE'RE CHARGING YOU WITH RESISTING ARREST TO COVER OUR ASS!"
Almost 30 years on this earth with only one problem with the law.... A SPEEDING TICKET! Then suddenly the world seemed to spin out of control and she felt like an alien from another planet because it seemed the whole world and everything and everybody changed..... one mistake, one charge turned into multiple arrest for FAILURE TO APPEAR OUT OF FEAR!
Anyone that has ever had the misfortune to visit CENTRAL BOOKING knows that it us a place that you do not want to ever visit again! Well, after being abandoned by her husband, all of the plans she made to make payment on restitution just fell apart because her husband decided to spend the restitution money, consequently she was afraid to show up in court for a violation of probation. Needless to say she had a warrant for failure to appear for a violation of probation..... she was scared to death!
Well, it was the day before her 30th birthday, her dreams were coming true.... seems her husband missed her just as much as she missed him and they were getting back together...... THEN SHE WAS ARRESTED! She was arrested while walking on a main street that unfortunately was well known place for prostitution....... that was probable cause to stop her as she was hitch hiking on that street when under cover police stopped and picked her up and before she knew it he stopped the car ousged a button on his dash board and then she noticed that man was climbing out of the trunk of the car.... she didn't know what to think.... well they charged her for attempting to solicit which was dismissed as she said nothing to convict her, unfortunately she had an FTA for a VOP. Imagine her horror when she found out that her bail a NO BAIL! She had to sit in BCDC for over 3 weeks and to her surprise she was released on her own recon.
Anyway, since age had no defense or money to pay for restitution she failed to appear for court.... well the officer that arrested her stopped her as he knew she didn't go to court, but what happened next was beyond belief!!!
THE OFFICER STOPPED HER AND SAID "WELL, WELL SOMEONE FORGOT TO GO TO COURT." SHE TRIED GIVING ANOTHER NAME BUT IT DIDNT WORK, TWO OFFICERS STOPPED HER AND SUDDENLY THERE WERE 5 OF THEM.....
AS THE ORIGINAL OFFICER ATTEMPTED TO PUT HANDCUFFS ON HER SHE MOVED HER ARM, MOSTLY JUST OUT A REFLEX.... NOT AN ATTEMPT TO RESIST AREEST. THIS WAS A TIME SHE WISHED SHE HAD A CELL PHONE TO RECORD WHAT WAS HAPPENING.
SUDDENLY SHE FOUND HERSELF LYING FACE DOWN ON THE GROUND WITH SIMEONE PULLING HER HAIR AND BANGING HER FACE IN THE GROUND AND AFTER THAT HE ACTUALLY PEPPER SPRAYED HER AND SAID " WE ARE CHARGING U WITH RESISTING ARREST TO COVER OUR ASS" NO LAWYER WOULD TOUCH THE CASE BECAUSE SHE WAS WAS NOT A MINORITY...... WITH BROKEN TEETH A BLACK EYE AND KNOTS ALL OVER HER HEAD SHE COULDNT DO A DAM THING.... FAIR???

12/12/2021

If you breathe and have a heart 💜 beat then you have bee a "VICTIM OF CIRCUMSTANCE!" Whether it's being at the wrong place at the wrong time, being blamed for something you didn't do, being betrayed by someone you loved and trusted, which is just like "BAMM", YOUR JUST WALKING ALONG AND OUTTA NOWHERE, YOU'RE STRUCK BY A STRAY BULLET OR STABBED I THE BACK BY SOMEONE THAT WAS NO DAM STRANGER!
Even worse, although your left to die..... YOU DON'T AND LIVE WITH THE PAIN EVERYDAY OF YOUR LIFE AND WISH YOU HAD DIED! I really don't mean to sound so damn morbid, but it's the truth.
I hope that you will join me as I start my "" TRUE STORY SERIES! ". I HOPE MY EXPERIENCES WILL INSPIRE AND ENCOURAGE OTHER MEMBERS (PUBLIC COMMENTS WELCOME AS WELL) TO SHARE YOUR TRUE STORIES AS WELL.
I will be LAUNCHING "SPIRITUAL ADVICE AND VIRTUAL COUNSELING SERVICES!

11/27/2021

From the time we are born, until the day that we die....No matter who we are, what we do, no matter how rich, no matter how poor.......
There is one thing for certain.... Although, we all are the basic "MASTER'S" of our own destinies, ( with the exception of "GOD'), there will be circumstances that unfortunately are completely beyond our control.

Some believe that it's a matter of luck or bad luck... Look for the most part life is what we make it, unfortunately, we are not the only people on this earth and we don't all share the same morals and beliefs consequently, others play a major role in many of our situations, which can affect our lives so profoundly that some of us are left with a ",LIFETIME" of unbelievable pain and devastation.

I am speaking from a "LIFETIME" of experience. I was once "HAPPY AND CONTENT", but my life took a cruel and twisted turn that I had absolutely no control over.....

HOW THE HELL CAN ONE DECISION MADE BY ONE PERSON, DESTROY THE LIVES OF SOO, SOOOOO MANY DAM PEOPLE?

The purpose of this post is to be a testament to making decisions and in how our behavior and decisions affect "EVERYONE'S LIFE.... MOT JUST OUR OWN! PLEASE BEFORE YOU MAKE A DECISION, THINK HARD ABOUT HOW THAT DECISION WILL AFFECT EVERYONE ELSE'S LIFE!

07/29/2019

Our most dangerous enemies are those that come disguised as a FRIEND!

07/27/2019

When I was a teen, I was a rebel.... Looking back and especially being the mother of a teen myself, I truly regret all of the pain I must have put my dear mother through..... I ran away from home 28 times.... I had my first job and my own apartment at age 14, got married at age 16 and became a mother of a beautiful blonde haired blue eyed baby boy at age 18......
Everyone said I was too young to get married, but as it turned out even though my husband was 21 years old, he was the one that was too young (the immature one) to get married because what I was feeling wasn't really love and my feelings would fade. Well, my feelings never changed, but my heart is full of regret and sorrow.
I was a CHILD BRIDE and was faithfully devoted to my husband even through times that he was unfaithful to me. I forgave him and stood by him nomatter what. I was a beautiful young woman and could have had any man I wanted..... WELL EXCEPT FOR THE ONLY MAN I WANTED..... "MY HUSBAND". He was taken from me by another woman that pretended to be my friend and was married herself...
"Karen Grove" is her name. She was married herself and worked with my husband.. I confided in her and despite her knowing how much I loved him and I was on the edge of taking my own life, she still had to do it....
My point is that my life is still in ruins to this day as a direct result of someone else's DECISIONS!!! I had no control...
I made a mistake and wrote some checks in 1999, which my husband was involved, and I had to do 11 months in jail. Well while I was doing time, Karen was doing my husband . If I had not been locked up I could have fought for my marriage... I would have fought for my life.... I REALLY HAD NO CONTROL OF WHAT WAS HAPPENING TO ME OR MY LIFE! There are so many horrifically nightmarish things that have happened to me and none of those things would have happened if not for him and a home wrecking trollop
I actually still love my husband to this day.... I'm supposed to... he is my husband. She is sleeping in my bed with my husband and she is living my life......
THIS IS JUST
ANOTHER EXAMPLE.....
OF BEING A
"VICTIM OF CIRCUMSTANCE!"
I'd love to hear your story and I'm sure that the other members would love it too...
Please share your experiences..... I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL CAUSE I'VE BEEN THERE AND I'VE DONE THAT!

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Jody