31/10/2026
It just doesn't make sense.
You have perfect timing.
The best rewards money can buy.
You're following the plan to the letter.
And still getting nowhere.
If your dog is over threshold the second you step out the gate, the answer isn't better rewards. It's a different gate. A different time. A different place to walk entirely.
And what about the dog who spends all morning scanning and barking like a banshee at the fence, barking at the window, on edge and reacting to every sound outside?
He's rehearsing that behaviour for hours. Every single day.
Then we expect 20 minutes of perfect training to just "click."
It just doesn't add up.
Then there's your dog themself.
How much sleep do they actually get?
Day in and day out.
Is it truly good quality sleep? Or barely a 2-minute cat nap and they're up again investigating that noise. Patrolling inside, then outside, then repeat, all day long?
Some dogs are so "wired" that one or two good sleeps won't even touch the surface.
How stressed were they BEFORE the walk even started?
That's the change we need to focus on more.
And the big one we don't ask enough: could they be uncomfortable?
Discomfort changes everything. If you notice that odd foot lift, that stiffness, or panting when they shouldn't be panting, that's a veterinary check first. Training can't fix an underlying physical issue.
And when they've had a really rough encounter - do they get time to decompress? Or are we dragging them straight back out there to "do better" all over again?
These sound harsh when I'm writing them.
They're not intended to.
They're said to help, but I know these helpful solutions are often seen as criticism.
Here's another helpful but uncomfortable one.
We push them far too much, far too soon. In our rush to get them "used to it," we keep putting them in situations they're clearly telling us they can't handle.
And sometimes we're so focused on stopping the barking and lunging, we miss the tiniest wins right in front of us.
And the hardest truth of all?
We are the ones who have to change.
Our routines. Our routes. And our habits.
You can have the best plan in the world. And yep, the tastiest food packed into your pocket.
But if you're spending 20 minutes helping your dog, and the other 23 hours and 40 minutes are just "untouched" by us?
Letting them bounce around for 10 hours straight.
In a state of high alert watching out the window.
Watching the fence running which we insist is "their fun" for the day.
That all matters.
And I know you want those walks to change.
You've been doing brilliantly looking at how to help them in those 20 minutes.
Now though?
It may be time to zoom out a bit more.
A few more changes here and there may just be what's needed.
Ease the pressure across their whole day. Give them more opportunities to genuinely rest, recover and feel safe. And give the training you're already doing a better chance to work.