Demi & Dogs

Demi & Dogs Trusted dog sitter & certified dog trainer
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Here's a little "about me-post", to my new clients ♥️Hi there 👋 I'm Demi, a force-free dog trainer who believes that kin...
10/11/2025

Here's a little "about me-post", to my new clients ♥️

Hi there 👋
I'm Demi, a force-free dog trainer who believes that kindness, patience and understanding create the happiest and healthiest pups!
3 years ago I moved to Norway from Croatia, and after the loss of my own dog my professional path changed direction.
I started my education in canine behaviour & language, and opened my own dog care business. Since then I have broadened my knowledge through studies, and lenghtened my experience through working with different dog breeds.
Continuous education is very important to me so I'm always upgrading my expertise and trying to give my best to you and your pups. And even though last year I took a little break from it, due to work and my norwegian studies, I'm planning to hop back on as soon as possible!
So here's a little background of me so far:
- Level 1 of Nordic education centre for dog trainers (Introduction to dog behaviour, dog language and problem solving)
- Level 2 (Practical reward-based dog training)
- Level 3 (Ethical dog trainer certificate)
- Canine fear course (CPD accredited)
- Understanding sound sensitivity (Wildatheart)
- First aid for dogs (Galen myotherapy)
- Animal trainer's toolbox (Tromplo)
- Canine coaching foundations (Canine principles)
- Learning in Canine scent detection (CCPDT)

I look forward to each and every new furry client ♥️
(For your attention, me and my love Saška)


Exciting news! I'm thrilled to introduce my new one-on-one puppy training program "Kind Foundations!" ♥️It's something I...
07/11/2025

Exciting news!

I'm thrilled to introduce my new one-on-one puppy training program "Kind Foundations!" ♥️

It's something I've been working on for quite a while among other projects, and now it's finally ready!
Rooted in ethical and science-based methods, this program is designed to help your puppy find his way in the human world. It focuses on their wellbeing and sets the foundation for a happy and confident dog.

Over five personalized modules, we'll cover life skills, house training, socialisation, communication & problem prevention - all with plenty of learning and joy along the way.

You will get follow-ups, constant support and my full attention!

If you want to book your spot or learn more, send me a message or click the link in bio.
Looking forward to being a part of your pup's journey ♥️



Last week Kobe & I spent chasing sunbeams and crunching leaves, and it shows.She's quite photogenic, isn't she?! ♥️     ...
23/10/2025

Last week Kobe & I spent chasing sunbeams and crunching leaves, and it shows.
She's quite photogenic, isn't she?! ♥️

A small figure, framed in light and shadow. Eyes that speak without words, Loki ♥️
22/10/2025

A small figure, framed in light and shadow. Eyes that speak without words, Loki ♥️

Life update! Sashka and I have been busy behind the scenes preparing some new and exciting things. That’s why we’ve been...
23/09/2025

Life update!
Sashka and I have been busy behind the scenes preparing some new and exciting things. That’s why we’ve been a little quiet lately.

We’ve been working, dreaming, and filling our days with the things we love most – long walks, cuddles, and a lot of creative planning.

I can’t wait to share what’s coming ❤️

For your attention: A doodle of us with our quirks and passions 🤓
(lots of similarities there😅)

Meet my sweet friend Teddy ♥️  This bundle of joy and I have been adventuring together for some time now, and I loved ev...
30/06/2025

Meet my sweet friend Teddy ♥️

This bundle of joy and I have been adventuring together for some time now, and I loved every minute of it.
Teddy is a 4 year old purebred mix of energy, curiosity and playfulness. Likes to explore, sniff around, and enjoy his nap times!
He's not too fond of scooters, but then again who is?😁

Lucky to be spending my days with souls like this ♥️

Say hi to my friend Yoshi ♥️ Or as I call him, Joško 😁 Him and I take walks every day so it's safe to say I love him too...
17/06/2025

Say hi to my friend Yoshi ♥️

Or as I call him, Joško 😁
Him and I take walks every day so it's safe to say I love him too much already!
Being a classic lab, his main obsession is food and he's not picky about it, also enjoys fresh grass just as much.
Maybe not so much of an athlete but a pro in rolling in fresh grass and escaping to dip in the creeks.
Makes every day a bit more special just by being the gentle goofer he is ♥️

I almost forgot to post about my regular fluffers 😅 Meet Ollie 🐶 The springer spaniel extraordinaire!Don't be fooled by ...
16/06/2025

I almost forgot to post about my regular fluffers 😅

Meet Ollie 🐶
The springer spaniel extraordinaire!

Don't be fooled by the sleeping photos, it's the only time I can actually catch him in a photo. Ollie is a true hunter, and as such has loads of energy, but he likes to "pass out" equally as much!
So we spend our time like that, following his nose in a rush or snoozing off for the afternoon.
Ollie appreciates cuddles, is vocal in his demands and is obsessed with pine cones!

Love spending days with this super drooling goofball ♥️

30/03/2025

There is a question I get asked constantly:

“Bart, should I play fetch with my dog every day? He LOVES it!”

And my answer is always the same:
No. Especially not with working breeds like the Malinois, German Shepherd, Dutch Shepherd, or any other high-prey-drive dog, like hunting dogs, Agility dogs, etc.

This answer is often met with surprise, sometimes with resistance. I get it—your dog brings you the ball, eyes bright, body full of energy, practically begging you to throw it. It feels like bonding. It feels like exercise. It feels like the right thing to do.

But from a scientific, behavioral, and neurobiological perspective—it’s not. In fact, it may be one of the most harmful daily habits for your dog’s mental health and nervous system regulation that no one is warning you about.

Let me break it down for you in detail. This will be long, but if you have a working dog, you need to understand this.

Working dogs like the Malinois and German Shepherd were selected over generations for their intensity, persistence, and drive to engage in behaviors tied to the prey sequence: orient, stalk, chase, grab, bite, kill. In their role as police, protection, herding, or military dogs, these genetically encoded motor patterns are partially utilized—but directed toward human-defined tasks.

Fetch is an artificial mimicry of this prey sequence.
• Ball = prey
• Throwing = movement stimulus
• Chase = reinforcement
• Grab and return = closure and Reward - Reinforecment again.

Every time you throw that ball, you’re not just giving your dog “exercise.” You are triggering an evolutionary motor pattern that was designed to result in the death of prey. But here’s the twist:

The "kill bite" never comes.
There’s no closure. No end. No satisfaction, Except when he start chewing on the ball by himself, which lead to even more problems. So the dog is neurologically left in a state of arousal.

When your dog sees that ball, his brain lights up with dopamine. Anticipation, motivation, drive. When you throw it, adrenaline kicks in. It becomes a cocktail of high arousal and primal intensity.

Dopamine is not the reward chemical—it’s the pursuit chemical. It creates the urge to chase, to repeat the behavior. Adrenaline and cortisol, stress hormones, spike during the chase. Even though the dog “gets the ball,” the biological closure never really happens—because the pattern is reset, again and again, with each throw.

Now imagine doing this every single day.
The dog’s brain begins to wire itself for a constant state of high alert, constantly expecting arousal, movement, and stimulation. This is how we create chronic stress.

The autonomic nervous system has two main branches:

• Sympathetic Nervous System – “Fight, flight, chase”

• Parasympathetic Nervous System – “Rest, digest, recover”

Fetch, as a prey-driven game, stimulates the sympathetic system. The problem? Most owners never help the dog come down from that state.
There’s no decompression, no parasympathetic activation, no transition into rest.

Chronic sympathetic dominance leads to:
• Panting, pacing, inability to settle
• Destructive behaviors
• Hypervigilance
• Reactivity to movement
• Obsession with balls, toys, other dogs
• Poor sleep cycles
• Digestive issues
• A weakened immune system over time
• Behavioral burnout

In essence, we’re creating a dog who is neurologically trapped in the primal mind—always hunting, never resting.

Expectation Is a Form of Pressure!!!!!!

When fetch becomes a daily ritual, your dog begins to expect it.This is no longer “fun.” It’s a conditioned need. And when that need is not met?

Stress. Frustration. Obsession.

A dog who expects to chase every day but doesn’t get it may begin redirecting that drive elsewhere—chasing shadows, lights, children, other dogs, cars.
This is how pathological behavior patterns form.

Many people use fetch as a shortcut for physical exercise.

But movement is not the same as regulation.
Throwing a ball 100 times does not tire out a working dog—it wires him tighter.

What these dogs need is:
• Cognitive engagement
• Problem solving
• Relationship-based training
• Impulse control and on/off switches
• Scentwork or tracking to satisfy the nose-brain connection
• Regulated physical outlets like structured walks, swimming, tug with rules, or balanced sport work
• Recovery time in a calm environment

But What About Drive Fulfillment? Don’t They Need an Outlet?

Yes, and here’s the nuance:

Drive should be fulfilled strategically, not passively or impulsively. This is where real training philosophy comes in.

Instead of free-for-all ball throwing, I recommend:
• Tug with rules of out, impulse control, and handler engagement

• Controlled prey play with a flirt pole, used sparingly

• Engagement-based drive work with clear start and stop signals

• Training sessions that integrate drive, control, and reward

• Activities like search games, mantrailing, or protection sport with balance

• Working on “down in drive” — the ability to switch from arousal to rest

This builds a thinking dog, not a reactive one. The Bottom Line: Just Because He Loves It Doesn’t Mean It’s Good for Him

Your Malinois, German Shepherd, Dutchie, or other working dog may love the ball. He may bring it to you with joy. But the question is not what he likes—it’s what he needs.

A child may love candy every day, but a good parent knows better. As a trainer, handler, and caretaker, it’s your responsibility to think long term.
You’re not raising a dog for this moment. You’re developing a life companion, a regulated athlete, a resilient thinker.

So no—I don’t recommend playing ball every day.
Because every throw is a reinforcement of the primal mind.

And the primal mind, unchecked, cannot be reasoned with. It cannot self-regulate. It becomes a slave to its own instincts.

Train your dog to engage with you, not just the object. Teach arousal with control, play with purpose, and rest with confidence.

Your dog deserves better than obsession.He deserves balance. He deserves you—not just the ball.


Bart De Gols

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