16/06/2026
This is what Iād tell anyone with a reactive dog who is always demand barking or being destructive šš»
It never surprises me when you tell me your reactive dog also demand barks and is destructive. Thatās because the vast majority of reactive dogs I meet are impulsive and easily frustrated.
And letās call a spade a spade, many of them are also working dogs trying to manage life in a pet dog home.
I promise, Iām not having a go at you. But the truth for many modern dogs is that sadly they are living a much more sedentary life than their ancestors of 50 years ago were. And for reactive dogs who are hard and unpleasant to walk, thatās often even more true.
But I canāt just say āquit your job and walk eight hours per dayā can I? So instead, we need to build a life where they can thrive without adding lots of pressure to your already busy day. That means you need to be working smarter, not harder.
For example, add more variety to their walks. I literally changed a dogās whole outlook last week by asking the owner to go to a new place four days per week. Remember how bored we all were doing the same thing every day in COVID? Your dog is the same.
We also need to do short but challenging training sessions where we ask your dog to problem solve. And Iām not talking about doing the same sit and paw routine youāve been doing for six months.
Also, think very carefully about what youāre rewarding. Itās easy to get stuck in the loop of giving your dog attention every time they bark or break something. If you gave me Ā£5 every time I poked you in the cheek, Iād never stop doing it.
But if you are complaining that your dog is being a sh*tbag when what they actually are is bored, that is on you. Sorry, but itās true. The days where my dogs get less and they are annoying, I accept thatās my bad.
So, what are you going to do differently tomorrow to stop your reactive dog from feeling so frustrated? Let me know in the comments. And donāt forget to save this post so you can come back to it next time your reactive dog is driving you mad.