12/07/2026
Too good.
Much of the current training world is happy to sell you emotionally appealing fairytales when it comes to both stopping unwanted behaviors and creating reliability with desired behaviors.
And while it would be wonderful if true, and it would make for far easier sales, and it would make for far easier owner follow through⊠Iâm sorry to tell you that itâs simply not true.
The science that so many positive-only, reward-only, force-free trainers use as a shield against criticism, and a convincing appeal to authority (if you donât know what youâre being sold) to convince you that all you need to do is reward what you want and ignore what your donât⊠says precisely the opposite.
In fact, the science (operant conditioning) says very clearly that ONLY punishment (an aversive consequence applied following an undesired behavior) can reduce or eliminate the behavior in the future. Not training an incompatible behavior. Not ignoring the undesired behavior. Not avoidance. Not creating a positive association.
And when it comes to creating reliability with fairly trained and proofed commands, the same goes. If non-compliance has no downside beyond not receiving a reward, most dogs when faced with juicy environmental or internal rewards, will happily choose non-compliance⊠unless thereâs an unpleasant consequence connected to the act of non-compliance.
That all said, itâs your life and your dog. If you donât like the sound of this reality stuff, youâre under no obligation to engage in it. But itâs good for you know that if you are struggling with your dog, and youâre dodging the reality piece of the training puzzle, youâre crystal clear as to why itâs happening.
Thereâs no mystery occurring, itâs just humans rejecting reality, and reaping the unsurprising outcomes that come with that choice.
The Good Dog Way
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