25/08/2025
I train for Companionship, Not Competition, how about you?
In my mentorship group today, we had a heartfelt discussion about something many of us have noticed: the rise of aversive trainers and the way competition titles are increasingly being treated as the âgold standardâ of dog training and behaviour over qualifications and experience.
And it made us pause. Because for many of us, thatâs not where our hearts are. It sparked something in me and I wanted to shoutout to our awesome community.
If you sometimes feel like your work is overlooked because it doesnât come with ribbons, medals, or competition titles â please know, you are not alone.
I see you.
I see the work you do helping families with anxious, reactive, or struggling dogs. I see the late-night texts, the tears of your clients, and the huge wins that might never make a stage⌠but change lives Every. Single. Day!
Because letâs be honest: most dogs arenât living in competition rings. Theyâre living in homes, parks, pubs, cafĂŠs, and communities. The skills that matter most for those dogs arenât âcompetition heelworkâ or âprecision retrieves.â
Theyâre learning to relax at home.
To settle calmly under a cafĂŠ / pub table.
To walk down the street without problems.
To feel safe, connected, and confident with their dogs.
That is powerful work. That is gold-standard work. If there were competitions for teaching dogs to chill out on the sofa, settle in a pub, or calmly cope with everyday life, Iâd be proudly standing on the podium. Because thatâs the training I do, and thatâs what matters most to the dogs and humans I work with.
And letâs not forget: when youâre working with companion dogs, youâre not just training the animal. Youâre supporting the dog, the humans they live with, in the environment they share. To do that well takes deep knowledge, empathy, and the ability to see the whole picture. That kind of work transforms lives â and it deserves to be celebrated.
Of course, competition has its place, and it can be beautiful. Some trainers do both, and when itâs done with kindness, those skills can complement each other beautifully and I tip my hat to those trainers. They are however, different worlds, with different goals and pressures, but even competition dogs must learn to navigate both worlds â the precision of the sport *and* the unpredictability of everyday life as companions. Thatâs no small feat.
If youâre an ethical trainer teaching competition dogs to also be calm, confident companions â without aversives â you are incredible! Youâre proving that excellence and empathy can walk hand in hand.
So, if you are a trainer who sometimes feels âless thanâ because you donât measure success in medals, please hear this: You are not less. You are part of a community of professionals doing work that changes lives, your work is not just enough â itâs invaluable.
I train for companionship, not competition, how about you? Lets see your gold standard!
With gratitude and solidarity,
đ Danielle