18/08/2025
Some good lessons from dad Ludo who I have told to have a gentle play with his pups.
I’m a firm believer thag dogs teach other dogs manners and to me, forget the sound of the Hoover, meeting other dogs is key to being well mannered. You might not like other dogs but you don’t snarl or bark at them - you stand, get sniffed and move on.
But how to get this? By meeting other dogs. Lots of them.
At this stage you can’t match it so you need a special dog like Ludo. But at all times, you must manage ‘energy’ as playing can get of hand fast if one of you is more boisterous than the other and playing should at all times be FUN. Look out for:
-open postures (play on ground and paws out) / exaggerated bouncy movements / bums in air
- wagging tails
- open mouth ‘biting’ that isn’t biting
- and taking turns (key) so it’s fun for both.
Dad Ludo knows they are puppies and too small to really play with him but you can see from his nose (pushing them away) or moving off when he thinks it’s too much.
When older, if a dog gets out of hand, the other dog will tell them! I have posted videos of playing dogs before. It’s lovely to see. And very obvious. And very obvious when it’s not fun anymore.
Even here the puppy here gets bored and moves on because she’s not getting the reaction she gets from her siblings who will bite and paw her back as they naturally think this is what it’s all about.
A dog will move away and play ends. That’s why you always ingore a biting puppy. They think it’s play and NO (until they really understand it) means: do carry on and bite me. So just ignore. And make it clear all interaction ends when that behaviour is exhibited.
My job is to lead my dogs and be in command. But I accept that dogs sometimes have to have some hard lessons from other dogs if they haven’t read the room - so teaching them how to is key. In a few weeks, I’ll let them meet Mungo and he will give them a low growl the moment they come into the room he’s in - and they will totally understand what that means. And if they carry on towards him, I will redirect. Learning to play and learning to leave a dog alone are skills dogs AND humans should have. Mungo leaves them well alone and he expects the same in return. Ludo very happy to play. BOTH are important for your dog to learn.
Find a friends dog / ask your local FB group / doggy day care / pack walks etc etc. These are provide the interactions you need - and as many as you can.
Dogs are naturally social creatures. As we are. How we lead and manage through interactions and reward the behaviours we like, or dogs rewarding the ones they like AND making it clear the ones they don’t, is extremely important.
If you’re arsey dog comes in to my house, 5 other dogs will be straight in there asking some hard questions of them. They won’t like it and they would adapt VERY fast. Because dogs (especially spaniels) are smart and clever. And there’s only one chief cocker spaniel in this house 😃
That’s what happens with the fosters who don’t like other dogs come here. They just need to be taught good manners and my dogs do that. Not all dogs like other dogs particularly. But we must reward acceptable behaviours.
Some dogs are more arsey than others. All puppies start of bitey and unruly.
You have to have a plan. And hearing the Hoover is the least of your worries.
Hope that’s makes sense.
Amanda