28/11/2025
STOP for a second… let’s talk about PERCEPTION.
Dog training doesn’t actually begin with treats, sit commands, or lead work.
It starts long before that.
It starts with how you PERCEIVE your dog and how your dog PERCEIVES YOU.
When you bring home a puppy, it isn’t a fur baby, it isn’t a child, and it definitely isn’t your emotional support tool.
That might sound harsh but it’s the truth that changes lives.
Your job isn’t just to love that puppy,
It’s to teach, guide and prepare them for a world that can be loud, busy, unpredictable and often overwhelming.
Yes, obedience matters.
But what matters even more is teaching them how to cope with stress, with pressure, with being alone, with the chaos of our human world.
And I see the consequences every single day:
Puppies and dogs who already can’t cope.
Anxious. Nervous. Needy.
Or on the opposite end over-excited, overstimulated, unable to settle.
And this is where perception becomes everything.
The moment you start seeing your dog as anything other than a dog you step onto a path that leads to confusion for the dog, issues in the home, and a cycle of stress for both sides.
On top of that, the endless “advice” floating around online support groups?
Let’s just say… it’s often the fastest way to make things worse, not better.
Dogs especially puppies NEED leadership, structure, and guidance.
Not because we’re trying to dominate them…
But because they’re entering a world that often runs completely opposite to their instincts.
Leadership and relationship are the foundation.
Get those right, and everything else becomes easier.
Miss those, and no amount of obedience, tricks, or cute Instagram moments will fix reactivity, anxiety, over-excitement or neediness.
Here’s the proof: these three terriers of mine are first and foremost perceived as dogs.
They’re trained as dogs.
And because of that, I can take them anywhere.
They can cope with being with me, without me, approached by strangers, stroked by anyone, yes they are loved and their behaviour stays the same.
That’s not luck.
That’s perception, relationship and leadership at work.
And yes some dogs naturally cope better than others.
But for the ones who don’t?
The worst thing you can do is smother them with human-style affection when they’re struggling.
You might think you’re helping…
But your dog often reads that as praise for the emotional state they’re in.
😬 “It’s okay to be anxious.”
😬 “It’s okay to be overwhelmed.”
Not because you mean it but because that’s what the dog understands.
But that’s a topic for another post.
For today, just remember this:
Everything starts with PERCEPTION.
How you see your dog.
How your dog sees you.
Get that right, and you’re already halfway to a calmer, happier, more balanced life together. If you need help with issues please get in touch we can help 07812089288.