07/01/2021
You can't rush something that needs time to grow.
It breaks my heart that part of the equestrian industry revolves around flipping horses and getting to that big venue before the horse is ready.
I'm not impressed like I once was, with the 4 year olds that have been to BYEH. Nor am I impressed with the 6 year old training at advanced/medium. After a 15 year love story with this sport, I know enough to wonder where those horses will be at the age of 10 nevermind 15. Will they still be with the riders that pushed them too soon? Will they be injected with steroids just so they can finish the season?
Whilst I understand pushing too soon isn't signing an invisible death warrant for all youngsters, it does inevitably end in an early uncomfortable retirement. Yet this is something that is widely accepted and ignored.
I have big ambitions for Orion, the kind that make people giggle because I cry on hacks sometimes. Despite those plans, Orion's ambitions include snoozing and a bigger hay net. He doesn't care about championships, he cares that I am kind to him.
He's rising 6, he is still growing. I repeat, he is still growing. Cantering a 20m circle is the equivalent of climbing Mount Everest or doing a three point turn in a cruise ship. It's hard work, it's hard for his joints and muscles that aren't developed fully, despite him looking like a small bungalow.
I honestly believe the social media generation are fueling this issue. Brand sponsorships always want to know your achievements and the next big goal. It constantly feels like a box ticking exercise when in reality your dealing with an animals life.
It seemingly feels like people aren't impressed unless you have a ball gown made out of sashes you won the previous season. That brands sift through thousands of application videos and overlook those doing things properly because they aren't jumping 1m45 ba****ck, backwards whilst reading a dressage test with a parrot on their head.
I won't rush Orion's education or make false promises about unachievable short term goals to secure the backing of any brand. If that is what you're looking for, you need to reroute the Sat-nav.
One day this horse will walk on the holy grounds of Badminton (grassroots 🤞) but until that day he will hack on the buckle end, wear his duck rug and wobble around the arena until he tells me he's ready. If he's never ready, he will be loved regardless.
A horse will give you the world if you give them your heart...and a little bit of time.
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