20/04/2025
When I say ‘I’ve been there’, I promise I’ve been there!
I don’t think I’ve ever shared this photo of Clarence- probably cos I’ve been embarrassed tbf.
It was taken when he’d been with me around 5 months. We were at a charity bulldog walk and a runner came through the car park and this photo was on one of the Facebook public albums and I wanted to curl up and hide!
I only started to see the behaviours maybe 3-4 months into adopting him and naively thought they may sort themselves out.
Granted, the picture does look worse than it was- he has never bitten and the angle makes him look closer to the runner than he was but his lunging was no joke!
He used to lunge at people, dogs, bikes, pushchairs! I was forever crossing roads and began avoiding public outings and even visitors to my home.
This was only one of his issues and he will always be a working progress- a wonderful behaviourist once described him as an onion- you solve one issue and find another. He’s the most complex dog I have probably ever met, and may ever meet!
He will always need assistance in making decisions and a lot of his work has been learning to tolerate as opposed to enjoy certain situations.
For example, he will never appreciate being approached by strangers when he feels restrained but if I can advocate for him to help him tolerate it and not fear every person walking close then we’re all good!
Today we hit a 30-40 person Easter egg trail whilst walking around Ingbirchworth reservoir - excited children, dogs, prams and he passed with zero flinching.
I’ve spent years de sensitising him to busy situations.
I’ll never actively seek them out but he can now cope if needs be and I can even say he actually enjoyed being guest of honour at my 40th birthday party at my house!
You’ll never be able to control certain external stimulus- people will always let dogs approach, people will always believe it is their god given right to touch your dog but if you can teach your dog to cope and trust in you, you’re half way there!
Have a tap through our stories this afternoon to see some of Big C’s milestones over the years!!