19/10/2026
Meet Jax, a beautiful, cheeky, very sensitive Arabian with a chequered past & as a result is very cautious until he really trusts someone. In our first session I took things very slowly as he was tense & guarded.
At the slightest indication of tension or anxiety I took my hands off him, moved out of his space & waited for him to feel comfortable enough to approach me, only then did I gently return. This happened numerous times throughout our session. He wanted the release but found it difficult to cope with & it was important for him to know that everything was on his terms.
Fortunately, his owner is very attuned to how sensitive he is & fully embraced my approach.
Our 2nd session a couple of weeks later proved how important listening had been!
Jax was a completely different horse, greeted me with enthusiasm, connected & worked with me immediately. I still took things slowly & we achieved significant release of long held tensions. At one point I stepped back to give Jax space to feel & process the changes in his body. I felt he wanted to lie down, so moved to the edge of the stable & sure enough he laid down. What an incredible gift of trust he showed me, being happy enough to lay down with me close by.
He was fighting hard to keep his eyes open so we left his stable, he laid his head down & slept for 10 minutes. This was one of the most humbling & gratifying sessions I have had, a true tribute to Reuban’s legacy to LISTEN.
After 10 minutes his head popped up over the stable door looking very cheeky and happy.
I then received this message from Jax’s owner:
"Jax is a very intelligent Arab, he has had many owners/different handlers and been kept in all sorts of varying circumstances before I got him, as a result of this he was confused and closed off and can be suspicious of human intentions. Chris understood this without questioning it and recognised the importance for Jax to feel seen and heard by her, once he saw that she was there for him on his terms, he trusted the process of healing that she was offering.”
I am looking forward to continuing building our relationship & unpeeling some of his compensation issues layer by layer, all at his pace.