27/03/2026
I want to talk about something other than reactivity for a moment because I think more people experience this than actually admit it.
Puppy Blues....
You bring your puppy home and expect it to feel exciting. You think of the walks, the snuggles, how everythingâs going to look.
But then youâre suddenly in it.
Youâre tired , like properly tired.
Your routine is long gone.
You canât switch off because youâre constantly watching them.
At some point, the thought creeps in⌠âHave I made a mistake?â
Thatâs the puppy blues and most people experience it, some harder than others.
It doesnât mean you donât love your dog.
It doesnât mean youâve got the wrong dog.
It just means this is a big adjustment and no one really prepares you for how full-on it feels.
I'll let you into a secret, being a trainer doesnât make me immune to it. I am deep in it right now!
You can know exactly what to do, have a plan, understand behaviour and still have moments where you feel overwhelmed, frustrated, or just a bit flat.
What I will say is this, it does settle...eventually! It'll look different for each puppy you have.
But you will start to understand each other. Things will feel less intense without realising and you will get bits of your normal life back.
But in the early days, it can feel like a lot.
So if youâre in that stage right now, youâre not failing.
Youâre just adjusting to your new normal.
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