06/08/2025
A good read ☺️
It may seem like a picture of a beautiful Mallorcan beach might not have much to do with training horses, for me, my early morning runs give perspective and space to redefine one’s simple daily practices.
🔹 Core Values in Horsemanship: Trust, Confidence, and Relaxation 🔹
In all aspects of my work with horses, I return to three foundational values:
Trust. Confidence. Relaxation.
These are not just abstract ideals — they are essential pillars that shape every interaction, every session, and every stage of development for both horse and handler.
While these words may seem broad, each holds significant weight in practice. Here’s what they represent to me, and why I believe they’re crucial in responsible, ethical training:
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🔹 Trust
Trust is the gateway to all meaningful progress. Horses are remarkably perceptive animals — they don’t respond to image, ego, or technique alone. They respond to consistency, clarity, and authenticity.
When a horse offers you its trust, it’s not just obedience — it’s emotional investment. You’ve earned their willingness to listen, to try, and to follow your guidance. This kind of trust can’t be forced. It must be earned through patience, fairness, and presence.
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🔹 Confidence
True confidence is cultivated over time. It’s not about pushing a horse through fear, but about providing experiences that allow them to learn and succeed.
A confident horse is one that feels equipped to make decisions, explore new situations, and recover from mistakes. Confidence leads to autonomy, and autonomy leads to a horse that can think, problem-solve, and adapt — key traits in any well-rounded equine partner.
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🔹 Relaxation
Relaxation goes far beyond the physical. Yes, it includes soft muscles, a swinging back, and regular breathing — but equally important is a relaxed mind.
A relaxed horse is a teachable horse. When a horse is calm, their nervous system is regulated, and they are in a mental state where learning can actually occur. This doesn’t mean passivity — it means they are present, receptive, and grounded in the moment.
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Taken together, these three pillars form a holistic framework for ethical, effective training. They shape how I assess progress, how I structure sessions, and how I measure success — not by what a horse does, but by how they feel in the process.
As trainers, handlers, or simply horse lovers, we may all have different methods — but shared values create a strong foundation for better horsemanship.
If you work with these values too — or interpret them differently — I’d be interested to hear your perspective. The conversation around quality horsemanship is always evolving, and we can all learn from one another.