20/07/2026
I came across a post on a community page today about a dog that had apparently attacked another dog.
The comments were wild.
โThere must be something wrong with that dog.โ
โIโve had dogs all my life and theyโve never done that.โ
โCanโt believe he uses a prong. I dread to think what happens in his house.โ
Are we actually for real?
If that dog did attack another dog, then of course the owner needs to take responsibility. Thatโs part of owning any dog. But one incident doesnโt automatically mean theyโre a bad owner, or that theyโre the reason the behaviour exists.
The problem is we see a tiny snapshot of someoneโs life and suddenly everyone becomes an expert. Nobody knows that dogโs history, genetics, health, previous experiences, or what that owner has already tried.
One comment really stood out:
โCanโt believe he uses a prong. I dread to think what happens in his house.โ
A complete stranger looked at one photo and decided they knew what happened behind closed doors. Thatโs a huge accusation to make based on absolutely no evidence.
We also need to stop assuming that because youโve owned a lovely, sociable dog, every dog of that breed is the same.
I own a beagle, a breed that is often described as gentle, friendly and a great family pet. That doesnโt mean every beagle is the same. Nelly has bitten me more times than I can count. Does that make her a bad dog? No. Does it mean every beagle is like that? Absolutely not.
Dogs are individuals. They have their own genetics, experiences, emotions and thresholds.
Any dog can bite. Any breed can be reactive. Behaviour doesnโt discriminate.
This kind of judgement is exactly why people donโt reach out for help. Itโs why people struggle alone. Itโs why they go through trainer after trainer before admitting they need support, because theyโre terrified of being judged by people who think they know the whole story from one Facebook post.
The owner should absolutely be held accountable if their dog has caused harm. But the internet doesnโt need to decide theyโre abusive, irresponsible, or the sole cause of the behaviour based on a single photo and a few lines of text.
If we keep attacking owners every time something goes wrong, donโt be surprised when they stop reaching out until itโs too late.
A little less judgement. A little more empathy. Weโd all be better off.
Rant over. I hope everyone has a lovely dayโฆ except the people who leave ridiculous comments on the internet.