Affinity Equine Behaviour North Wales

Affinity Equine Behaviour North Wales Equine psychologist and behaviour specialist with a degree in behavioural science. A ‘problem’ horse is a highly stressed, or traumatised horse.

Only when we ‘fix’ our own mindset and behaviour, can we begin to resolve their issues.

28/10/2025

The difficult to load horse…

Witholding hay for a few hours in the morning whilst other horses are eating around them, to make sure they go in to the trailer to get their food isnt clever, it’s just callous.

18/10/2025

“My horses would injure each other if I put them out together” 🙄

People don’t turn their horses out together because they ‘appear’ to fight over the fence or through the bars. They’ll state one horse is ‘dominant’ or ‘aggressive’ by nature when the issue is simply the fact the living conditions are sub par. Its a welfare issue, not a ‘they don’t get along’ issue.

Horses will argue over resources when they’re scarce and this includes adequate space, lack of freedom and a lack of social contact. If they’re confined in stables, or small pens then they will be extremely frustrated in life and take it out on each other. Those who spend most of their lives confined without social interaction develop mental issues so that when they are finally turned out, they take their frustrations out on the more timid individuals, bully them or constantly drive them around.

When horses are forced to share a stamp of a field where haylage runs out before the next load is put out then they will begin to fight over it because theres not enough space to get away from each other.

Feral horses dont fight unless its about breeding because they have endless space to utilise. Its not in the interest of survival to waste energy and risk injury fighting when individuals who might not generally get along can simply stay out of each other’s way.

Horses that ‘fight’ or bully each other have mental health issues caused by their living conditions. When turned out daily in fields fit for purpose, they have no need to get into altercations. Its caused by humans, and humans use the horse as an excuse not to provide them with their most basic needs.

Taking great care of a horse ONLY exists if they have daily turn out with friends and ample space. Taking great care of a horse happens when we prioritise their mental health, not when we throw money at them in other ways to make up for the fact we don’t have adequate living conditions for them or dont give them what they actually need in the first place.

Just.. awesome
17/10/2025

Just.. awesome

What most people think they’re already riding. 🙈 This is what those who dont put the horses needs first should have inst...
16/10/2025

What most people think they’re already riding. 🙈 This is what those who dont put the horses needs first should have instead 👌 if only!

This!!! Dealing with both species, its hard to cope with the dissonance from both owners, but statistically theres more ...
14/10/2025

This!!! Dealing with both species, its hard to cope with the dissonance from both owners, but statistically theres more of it in the horse world. Somehow when the species live in our homes we tend to have more empathy for them. Not so much when we rely on them for fun. 😔

The horse world needs to reflect on its hypocrisy.

A lot of horse people hold views towards horse care and handling that are completely incongruent with their beliefs for other animals.

An example:

Many horse people will vehemently defend that horses being stabled for 18-24 hours a day and only ever living in isolation from other horses are “extremely well cared for.”

Many of these same people would jump down someone’s throat if they admitted to kennelling their dog for 18-24 hours a day and keeping them isolated from all other animals outside of a 30min-1 hour walk per day that consisted of the human controlling the dog’s every decision and move (no sniffing allowed!).

Another example:

Many horse people view the selling of horses, even in the case of lame and elderly horses, to be a non-issue. Because “not everyone can afford a horse they can’t ride.”

They don’t tend to think much deeper and consider how stressful it may be, even for young and sound horses, to consistently have their lives uprooted and bonds severed to be moved around repeatedly. The average horse goes through at least 7 homes in their lifetime.

On the flip side, many of these same people would lose their minds if they saw someone rehoming their dog.

ESPECIALLY a senior dog with health issues.

But, even with young and healthy dogs, it is not at all uncommon to see nasty comments coming from horse people when people are forced to rehome dogs for reasons like being unable to find a rental that allows pets.

Yet another example…

Many horse people watched the documentary Black Fish or will look at animals in sea parks and zoos with pity.

Then they will go walk through the shedrow of their barn full of chronically stabled horses, many of which have stress behaviours and not see an issue.

There is selective outrage and clear cognitive dissonance from horse people.

Far too many equestrians can identify similar welfare issues in other animals but overlook the same types of problems in horses.

Horses being more expensive really isn’t a good excuse to be less considerate of their welfare.

Yes, they’re more complex to keep long-term without selling but their price tag doesn’t change the experience the horse has.

All of this to say, I’m not against selling horses, not completely.

But, it is hard to stomach the absolute hypocrisy that’s so many Horse people show.

When you get to see a clear comparative of how people perceive other animals and their struggles versus how they are willing to consider their horse, it is really hard to look past it.

A lot of these examples of the Horse people, I was once guilty of as well.

And I was also one of the people who would be able to notice lapses in adequate care with other animals, and would share judgment, meanwhile, I was guilty of the same things with my horses.

The point being: when we noticed welfare problems and other animal industries, and then willingly overlook the same ones within the industry that we are most part of, there is hypocrisy.

And the motivation behind doing so it is likely related to us trying to protect the way we want to continue doing things, rather than honestly looking at the problem.

We owe it to horses to be more critical of the way we do things, even and especially when it is uncomfortable.

It is easier to criticize animal worlds that we are further removed from or where our welfare is already at a decent standard, it is a lot harder to criticize the things that we are currently participating in directly. 

If walking through a shelter where dogs are all individually kennelled pulls at your heart strings and elicit empathy from you, seeing a barn full of horses individually stalled should do the same.

‘Amen’.
08/10/2025

‘Amen’.

Progress doesn’t happen when “being nice” is held to a higher importance than looking at the honest truth.

Avoiding discomfort to the point of not correcting or calling out harmful behaviour isn’t morally superior.

The horse industry is very discomfort averse… but only for the humans.

Too much of our community can’t handle the discomfort of reflecting on whether or not certain practices and belief systems are outdated or the discomfort associated with studies calling to question such practices.

Concerns about horse welfare are written off as unkind when it makes people feel uncomfortable.

But, growing past traditions that have become outdated doesn’t happen while keeping everyone within their comfort zones.

In a world where so much of the horse training is completely reliant on causing horses discomfort, it’s downright hypocritical for so many people to be so unwilling to deal with the discomfort that can come with growth sometimes.

It’s uncomfortable to become aware that practices we’ve used for years may lack ethics and may be harmful to horses.

It sucks, actually.

But, it’s necessary.

Constantly putting human comfort above the welfare of horses is morally corrupt.

If people can’t even handle the discomfort of information that is hard to hear, we have no business justifying equipment and training practices that relies solely on discomfort.

Besides, much of the discomfort associated with the horse welfare discussion can be easily avoided.

People can block the accounts they don’t want to hear from. They can walk away from the conversations if they so choose.

The horses don’t have the same liberty to do so when we cause them discomfort.

So, if you find yourself angry and annoyed by horse welfare discussion, it might be worth considering why you’re unwilling to hear conversations that at their core are about trying to better the lives of horses.

Regardless of where you stand on the welfare discussion, you should be open to the conversation happening if you’re truly in this industry for the horses.

We can handle the discomfort of hard conversations if it means reducing the discomfort that horses have to face.

06/10/2025
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Horses are not ‘fashion’. Unless we use them in a professional capacity that involves them becoming excessively sweaty w...
30/09/2025

Horses are not ‘fashion’.

Unless we use them in a professional capacity that involves them becoming excessively sweaty when worked to the point we risk them over heating, then clipping is an unnecessary, intrusive, stressful experience for most horses, that doesn’t in any way benefit them.

Clipping should only be done for the welfare of the horse, not to please our eyes or follow suit.

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