20/04/2026
I’m gonna say something a little confronting…
Some of us use our dogs to avoid ourselves.
We hyper-focus on improving their behaviour and avoid exploring our own.
We feel guilt about every walk that’s not long enough for them but avoid meeting our own exercise needs.
We obsessively Google solutions to training or health concerns at midnight and skip learning about our own needs.
We spend thousands on vet care but don’t spend on our own wellness.
We feed them organic raw and avoid taking care of our own nutritional needs.
It feels like loving them ohhh so good!
And it is.
But sometimes, it’s also avoidance.
Because if we’re focused on fixing them or improving how they might feel, we don’t have to look at what’s happening within ourselves.
Unconsciously, it might feel easier or more rewarding to take REALLY GOOD care of them and settle for mediocre care of ourselves.
I say this with so much compassion.
Because I’ve been there.
Because I see it every single day with clients.
Because we can have the best of intentions but seriously but hurting ourselves, by putting our dogs before ourselves.
What kinda person would you be if you tended to yourself as lovingly as you tend to your dog?
How would you show up for you differently?
Where can you give to yourself a little more?
My 1:1 coaching is designed to help you explore your relationship to yourself, through your dog. 💕 I’ll be back soon!