
07/22/2025
Rethinking Pressure: The Fire That Forges
One of the most powerful — and most uncomfortable — shifts I’ve made in my stockmanship (and my life) was changing how I think about pressure.
For a long time, I saw pressure as something “bad.”
Something to correct a dog.
Something to stop unwanted behavior.
Something to take off as soon as possible.
Something that reflected negative emotion or failure.
And you know what happened?
My dogs learned to fear it.
They avoided it.
And — if I’m honest — so did I.
But here’s what I’ve come to understand:
Pressure isn’t bad.
It’s not punishment.
It’s not something to fear.
It’s a force for building — when we use it with intention.
In fact, the only way to truly transmute pressure — to allow that felt tension to leave your body and settle into something useful — is through clarity of intention.
Without clear intention, pressure just scatters or lingers. But with it, pressure becomes directed, purposeful, and transformative.
When we apply pressure only to correct, it becomes sharp, heavy, and confusing to the dog.
But when we use it with the desire to grow understanding, it becomes the fire that forges: trust, clarity, and confidence.
Because pressure, at its essence, is neutral.
It’s simply information.
And how you hold it, how you deliver it, and how you think about it — that’s what gives it meaning.
One of my mentors ( Josh Nichol) calls this a universal law — a truth so deep and consistent that it applies across all aspects of life and existence.
And he’s right.
We see it everywhere:
🔥 Metal is forged in fire.
🌱 Seeds sprout through the pressure of the earth.
🐑 A good dog learns not by avoiding pressure, but by releasing into it and finding their balance there.
💛 And we, too, become who we’re meant to be when we learn to stand in it — not run from it.
When you begin to see pressure as a teacher — not just a hammer — something shifts.
Your dog stops bracing against it.
You stop bracing against it.
You both begin to find yourselves within it, instead of losing yourselves to it.
So the next time life presses on you, the dog hesitates, the trial feels tense — ask yourself:
Am I using this pressure as an excuse to stop?
Or am I letting it build something in me?
Because when we handle pressure with presence and purpose — it becomes the forge.
And that’s where the strongest dogs, stockmen, and people are made.
💭 What’s one way you’ve learned to see pressure differently — in your work, with your dog, or in your life?
Drop it below. Let’s learn from each other.