01/29/2025
It doesn't look like much and that's because "boring" and "uneventful" equals success in my books. Here's the handsome foster Dior, standing calmly outside on a loose leash, with a feeling of togetherness. Before, he was incapable of standing still outside, he was obsessed with sniffing (not happy sniffing, but neurotic sniffing), and he'd be pulling to the end of his leash without any regard to what was on the other end of the rope.
I didn't take video, but we even got some loose-leash walking in tonight. Calm, relaxed, loose leash walking together. Key word: together.
I think we've made inroads since I stopped using treats. Treats are great when used wisely but they cannot replace relationship. And this fella has been massively over-treated. He was more than a bit entitled, combined with exactly zero respect/regard for people, and only high-energy associations with outdoors and humans... we had ourselves a perfect storm.
The other thing that really moved the needle today was I gave him a few time-outs for invading my space. I had been ignoring him when he'd shove his nose insistently at me (he was definitely used to getting treats and pets for this behaviour). But I thought tonight, I'd get a bit more serious about asking for my space. He got 3 time-outs ranging from 30 seconds to 3 minutes. After the third one, he came out, politely sniffed my leg and walked away. Perfect!
Time outs are highly, highly effective, again, if done correctly and in conjunction with other strategies. If done incorrectly, or on their own, they can backfire, causing more stress to the dog rather than decreasing it - as is the goal.
It's been a few long weeks here, but now I feel we are really getting momentum! Well done, Dior. I knew you were in there. It's an honour to help you find yourself.