22/03/2026
Ditch the sit.
Please stop forcing puppies to sit whenever they encounter something new or other dogs pass by on a walk… (and adult dogs)
I often see puppies being ‘corrected’ and forced into a sit for becoming ‘wriggly’ on the lead when other dogs are approaching or passing.
Whenever our puppies see other dogs or novel things and become animated we always jump to the conclusion they are excited and being ‘naughty’, this is rarely the case. Nervous energy is massively different to positive excitement yet looks the same to the untrained eye.
Many puppy training classes teach that we must get the puppy to sit and watch things go by and this is not the correct approach.
When we force them to sit we are taking away their ability to cope with the situation, by getting more distance if needed, or communicating how they feel such as hiding behind us when things get too close or something is overwhelming.
Insisting a puppy sit is far more likely to lead to reactivity in adulthood because it’s a form of flooding. We are removing their choice in the situation and exposing them to things they might deem scary with no option for escape, this is how we create fears and phobias.
Whilst us remaining remaining still with our puppy is correct so that their arousal is as low as possible whilst they mentally process the situation, instead of concentrating on their compliance and stillness, we should be far more concerned with how they feel about the situation and what stress signals they are displaying so that we can give them more distance and pair with treats to create a more positive association, or allow them to meet/approach briefly if that’s genuinely what they want to do, and the approaching dog is suitable.
Teaching a puppy voluntary eye contact is THE foundation for all future training, by providing them with a means to communicate with us, ask for help, and subsequently helping them deal with situations, sit does not achieve any of this.
Puppies dont need obedience training, they need us to be emotionally available and help them build positive associations with EVERYTHING first and foremost.
Lastly, I must add, it is NOT ok to use a slip or grot lead on a puppy, it’s equally as unthinkable as using one on a human baby.