30/08/2026
How long does it take two budgies to decide whether they like each other?
Too many times I’ve seen people conclude that their bird is antisocial, or simply doesn’t like other birds, because they’ve tried one or two companions and they haven’t gotten along.
But there’s a problem with that conclusion: while budgies need companionship, they don’t automatically like every other budgie they meet.
So, how long does it take?
There isn’t really a set timeframe.
Bird relationships become apparent through patterns over time: who they choose to approach, sit beside, preen, avoid, or repeatedly interact with.
And there’s a whole spectrum between “I choose you” and “please go away".
That’s something worth remembering when we talk about “getting another bird as a friend".
Budgies need the companionship of other budgies. But that doesn’t mean any two budgies will automatically become friends.
We can give them opportunities to form relationships; we can’t choose those relationships for them.
Sometimes good welfare means giving birds choices, then paying attention to the choices they make.
video description: Two budgies sit together on a branch resting on the aviary ground. At the beginning, the male places a foot on the female’s back as they gently interact with their beaks. He then flies away briefly before returning to her. They resume their beak-to-beak interaction, and he nibbles at her shoulder for a brief moment.