
28/07/2025
If they're hiding...they're not ready.
They're not being dramatic or disobedient.
They are telling you and others as clearly as they can that they don't feel safe.
If being behind your legs makes them feel safer....let them.
They are telling you, "You make me feel safer"
Peeking at visitors behind a chair?
Same thing.
That chair or couch can be a protective "barrier".
It's safer there.
They may have more options to escape in different directions or have learned that humans struggle to reach them in their hiding spot.
Let them hide.
Let them observe....but take the pressure off next time.
If you know this happens when visitors arrive, that's an opportunity to have a plan in place for next time.
Maybe a Lickmat behind a gate.
Perhaps removing them to the backyard before your gust arrives...they know the person is inside but they can observe at that distance they need.
That's how to build confidence.
Over time that distance can get less and less.
For now though....it's clear communication that we must listen too.